When the child becomes a teenager, the set of problems begins. It seemed, there were no problems few years ago, the child was clearly. Now he misses family dinners, breaks joint trips to a holiday, constantly occupies the bathroom and spends all the free time in the room at the computer.
Such situation causes misunderstanding in parents. There are 10 things which irritate parents of the growing-up child.
Room of the teenager
At once parents notice on a door to the room of their child the plate – "without knock not to enter". It brings them, to put it mildly, into a stupor. They feel offended and cannot understand the reason of such behavior of the child. They need time that will learn to accept similar conditions.
Different socks
Parents are perplexed where all pair socks got to. Spend time for their search, but it is much better to make different socks a part of clothes of the teenager.
Appearance of the teenager
It is worth accepting the fact that the teenager does not want to listen to opinion of adults any more and seeks to create the style. It already has an opinion on how it is necessary to put on, and parents, in his opinion, are absolutely deprived of sense of style.
Earphones
Teenagers like to sit with phone or a player and to listen to music in earphones. On the one hand, it solves a problem of the loud music reaching from the room with another, irritates parents who cannot attract attention the child. Also teenagers chose successful tactics of escape from the conflicts with parents – they just turn on the music in earphones on full loudness and to parents to them to make oneself heard is useless.
Gadgets
Some adults easily master the latest equipment. Others need the help. Teenagers use it. Therefore do not trust if they tell that they did not hear phone.
Disrespect
Often teenagers show disrespect in relation to parents and teachers. It is very difficult to convey information to the growing-up children. They constantly are lazy and as if everything what they are tried to be taught to push away.
Relation to money
Teenagers make of money light. Often they take money from mom with dad, and, as a rule, inquiries of the child are higher, than the salaries of parents. On the offer to earn the teenager imposes the requirements. To work for low payment he does not agree and will not go there where "if only paid". But he does it not because seeks to earn, just the teenager needs all and at once.
Aggression
Teenagers quite often are aggressive. They shout at parents, are rude to adults, provoking thus scandals. Parents do not know how to react to such behavior of the child as it is correct to behave with it.
Problems with communication
You should not sponsor the child too strongly. Otherwise it will be difficult for it to support a promise with peers on necessary to it level. Besides, the child who was constantly sponsored will not be able to grow up independent.
Interest in study was gone
The reasons for such factor can be much. Parents need to react in time and to competently lead a discussion with the teenager, he needs parental support. If there are not enough words of mom with dad, it is worth addressing the expert.