Unfortunately, computer games, however, as well as games on the mobile phone and various prefixes, often replace to children real-life communication and cheerful outdoor games. Why it occurs? How to distract the child from the electronic friend? Before answering, it is necessary to be set by another: how often do we, adults, pay attention to the child? Anxious with eternal search of material welfare, we often forget how communication with parents is important for the child. Perhaps, someone thinks that, having made friends with the computer, the child has an opportunity to become the ingenious programmer. This opinion is wrong: not each kid is capable to refuse entertainments in favor of serious training even if and behind the computer screen.
Of course, from hobby of children for computer games not to get to anywhere. To fight against it it is useless, but it is possible to diversify leisure of the child with not less interesting classes!
For a start it is necessary to overcome own laziness and unwillingness to change the settled life. First, communicate with the child, you ask to help with any affairs, whether it be sorting of family photos or cooking of a dinner. At the same time it is necessary to talk "heart-to-heart", to tell stories from the childhood, to ask the child of council for any given questions. Will not prevent if you hold regular family meetings at which family problems will understand, and to be formed joint plans for the weekend.
Joint walks, visits of cinema and theaters have to become the following step. And precisely your child will be lost in admiration if you suddenly wish to register with him in one section, whether it be soccer, dances or swimming. Will not prevent to get board games for the house and more often to play all family.
And the main thing, you should not forget that having shown interest in problems of the child, we will be able to improve with it trusting relationship, thereby helping it to leave the virtual world and to lead full-fledged life.