You made the test for pregnancy, and that showed two strips. Soon at you there will come big changes. Your body, a way of life will change, it is possible also the level of material welfare. But it will occur later while you have to tell this joyful news to close people.
Instruction
1. The first who has to learn about your pregnancy is a father of the child. Agree, it will turn out quite ridiculously if he receives this news not from you personally, and from your mom or the girlfriend.
2. If the child planned and long-awaited, then the message about pregnancy can be organized as a holiday. Make a romantic dinner or suggest the husband to go to restaurant. And there, holding in hand a glass of fresh juice (you remember that you are pregnant), tell the man joyful news. You can, cunning smiling, to stretch to your young man the test for pregnancy if you are sure that he knows what the subject is, and will puzzly not twist it in hands.
3. Even if pregnancy was not planned, and with the child's father you are not painted, it is necessary to tell him about it all the same. If you are afraid of its reaction, report to him about your state by phone. It is quite probable that in the beginning for the young man it will be shock. Changes will happen not only in your life. He should solve whether he is ready to leave barchelor life, whether will be able to provide the wife with the small child. Give it time for that to consider everything. You will not see it, perhaps, not too pleasant reaction, and by the evening he will manage to make for himself the decision, to calm down and buy you flowers.
4. Your parents will become the following people to whom you want to tell news most likely. Safely you speak about your pregnancy – they with pleasure will support you, and mom will be able to give to you a set of useful tips. If you have good relations with the father-in-law and the mother-in-law, can tell this news to them personally, is not present – leave this prerogative to the husband.
5. Possibly, you want to share joy with close friends. But if you tell about the pregnancy to one girlfriend in the beginning, most likely, all others learn this news from it. Gather people, dear to you, better and report to them about your interesting situation. Attention and care of friends for nine months to you it is provided.
6. Even if you do not like to devote working collective in the private life, it is necessary to tell the chief about pregnancy to you. It is necessary to make it as soon as possible, it should look for the employee on your place until you are in maternity leave. Besides, after the conversation you with clear conscience will be able to ask for leave in clinic for women, without thinking out for this purpose every time the convincing reason.