Hysterics of the child are rather frequent story. Many parents are lost before it, without knowing what to do in such situations. Most often they start calming the child at once. But whether always it should be done?
Parents and children
Education of children is a hard work. The big intelligence and an emotional component is for this purpose necessary. Very often it is rather difficult for parents to get it together when their child begins to be capricious, roll up hysterics, not to listen to their arrangements. To calm the child, one shout of type does not suffice: "Become silent! Now you will go to a corner! Ceased to cry!", etc. For this purpose it is necessary to know well the beloved child and to use the methods to calm him.
How to calm the child
Not always it is worth rushing to the child at once and to begin to calm him. Sometimes, that after that children begin to cry and shout even stronger. It is possible to try to leave his one. Let will splash out the emotions, and, it is possible that he will calm down independently. In this situation surely it is necessary to track that he did not do to himself any injuries, being in loneliness.
Wise parents know that to shout at the child is useless. They begin to copy and repeat their actions in the hysterics. If parents behave quietly, then it teaches their children to behave in this way. Constrain the emotions to teach it the child.
Small children often because cannot express the emotions words, roll up hysterics. Parents in turn, without understanding them, too begin to fall into a hysterics. At them it is also impossible to explain them that they want. The psychologists studying this problem recommend to pass to a sign language with which it is possible to explain easier what the parent wants to tell the kid.
Sometimes the adult very much wants to be alone. He needs personal space which nobody would break. Such requirement can arise also at the child. It is quite probable that he is just bothered by the people surrounding it and a situation. He begins to shout and cry. And can happen and vice versa that tries to draw with shout and a hysterics to itself attention as it is lonely. It is necessary to try to understand it. In one case – just to leave the child of one, and in another – to pay it more attention.
Conclusion
Emotionally developed parents have to remember that each flash of aggression, hysterics, anger at their child has a reason. To answer it in the same way recklessly. Only love and understanding it is possible to correct such behavior of the child. He has to understand that the hysterics is not the best way to express the requirements.
Parents, having understood the hysterics reason, are obliged to show that it for them dearest and favourite. The little person has to know and feel always that mom and dad love him, kind of he well or badly did not conduct himself.