Today children are surrounded by the whole Universe which is created on infinitely advertizing. Computer games, comics, filmstars – all this is a part of that factory of dreams which takes away children from the real world. The aspiration of the child to try to imitate someone always naturally, especially if the hero is worthy imitations. There is no fault of parents that to replace heroes of army and World War II the "color" superheroes invented by someone came. But there is also it that the child too strongly is fond of any given character that cannot but disturb parents. It is impossible to forbid such aspiration, but it is possible to correct a situation if to show tactfulness and wisdom.
Instruction
1. Show interest. You do not seek to separate the child from a dream, this dream is all the same inaccessible. Tells it with the child on subjects, interesting to it, more often, discuss his idol.
2. Do not select his dream. The fatal flaw of many parents is to say that ninja turtles or the spiderman do not exist. By it it is stated you can cause aggression of the child and if you insist on the correctness, you can develop a psychological complex (if the idol does not exist what then is strong in our world?).
3. Go too far. Show an initiative at discussions of his favourite character, make it an object for the analysis. For example, ask the child what he would make in a situation that the idol made in the same situation it? Suggest the child to write a story with participation of his idol.
4. Distract its attention. Unexpected change the behavior, having presented it a ball, the machine, a doggie or having played with it the developing games.
5. Do not limit the child in imaginations, hobby for the superhero is extremely dangerous only when the child strongly suffers from loneliness and tries to fill emptiness of communication with the help of the invented heroes.