Education of the child is an important part of the life of any parent. Everyone wants his child to grow up strong, healthy, clever and well-mannered. The main and main period in life of the child is the age up to three years. In this period at the child the character, habits is built up. Therefore it is necessary to pay special attention to this period.
Value of the developing classes
That the child grew versatile it is necessary to pay constantly to him attention, to be engaged with the child. The developing games, drawing, music, a molding – all this helps the child to understand the world surrounding it more. It is necessary to pay attention to physical exercises. Here the main thing not to be overzealous. Many parents make such mistake as strong load of the child that is not a good method in education. It is necessary to consider the choice and the child's wishes also. Let that sports direction what to it most of all to liking will choose.
Instilling of skills of diligence
Development of such quality as diligence is also very important in the child's life. Do not forbid the child to be engaged in different affairs. You ask the child to help you about the house. Girls can impart love for cooking of food. If the daughter grows up the good hostess, it will be completely mother's merit.
Criticize skillfully
It is important to pay special attention to criticism in any undertaking of the child. It is impossible to criticize or condemn at all. In each family for the child the sample is his parents. Often parents pay to education of children too much attention, but at the same time make a huge mistake – forget about own education. Each child is a reflection of parents. It is necessary to remember first of all the behavior in the presence of the child, the told words, and, of course, acts.
What the most important in education?
The main thing is to surround the child with love and parental care, but the amount of time spent with the child does not affect parental attention in any way. Where there is a child: in a garden or at the grandmother, it is unimportant. The parental love and care is hidden and is present at the child's life constantly. Important — interest in everything, than the child is engaged. It is necessary to develop parental interest already from the cradle.
Huge mistake of many parents is replacement of many useful occupations with gadgets presently. Parents since the smallest years buy to the child the tablet or phone. Psychologists and doctors continue to repeat that it is very harmful. Many modern games on computers or tablets develop at the child in the future mental instability, hyperactivity, nervousness, etc.
Physical punishments are also not welcomed by psychologists, punishments "psychological" that the child in the future understood what is good and what is bad, properly to arrive and how it is not necessary to arrive will be much more effective.
To surround the child with love and attention, at the same time without forgetting about own behavior and the emotional atmosphere in family, – here the main guarantee of good education.