To teach to fill up the child to one in own bed – a task difficult. And approach has to be competent and serious. The child needs to get used to fall asleep in the bed. Besides, the procedure has to take roots in his consciousness as pleasant and invariable process.
It is required to you
- Crib, soft toy.
Instruction
1. Remember that for the child any change of a habitual state of affairs is a stress. Therefore in advance think over all action plan. Try to make so that process of accustoming of your child to sleep to one, proceeded in the form of a game or an amusing adventure. Then everything will be painless also yours the son or the daughter will be able easily to endure changes.
2. Be adjusted on the fact that you should listen to hysterics of the child and to wipe his bitter tears. Small children are stubborn and do not wish to give in without fight. Therefore do not give up and do not concede to children's whims.
3. Accustom to fill up the child at the same time. Before going to bed sing to the kid his favourite song from a cartoon, tell the fairy tale, make massage. You can put to it in a bed a soft toy.
4. If the kid refuses to sleep independently and resorts to you from the nursery, then put his bed near the. Remove all barriers between yours and its beds. Previously remove one wall from a crib. The child has to have an impression that he continues to sleep together with you though he will sleep on own bed. You sleep so within a month, but if you feel that the kid did not get used yet, prolong this term.
5. The child has to get used to a bed, a mattress, a pillow and a blanket. In his consciousness has to take roots that it is its bed. To fall in love with the berth or at least are not afraid of it. Put the child in his bed, you lay down with him nearby - on the. Be realized that you fell asleep. Over time the kid will begin to calm down, will believe that mom will not leave anywhere and will quietly fall asleep.
6. Return a bed wall into place later. Do not shift a bed anywhere. Now between mom and the kid there will be a barrier - a bed wall. So you sleep for two weeks.
7. After this time begin to remove a crib. At first the distance between your and its berth has to be not long. It that if necessary, you easily could reach your angel a hand. At this stage your child will get used to sleep independently, but it still will have desire to see mom near itself.
8. Gradually remove a sleeping bed of the child on meter from the bed. It will be soon possible to put a bed of the kid to the children's room.