The approximate date of childbirth is closer, the it is more than experiences at future mom. Especially disturbingly to wait for the firstborn. Whether everything is ready in the room? Whether everything things are bought? There is a lot of aspects of preparation for the birth of the child. In this article we will consider some of them.
Probably, the most important for the pregnant woman is a psychological readiness for emergence in family of the new little person. Actually, the quantity of the bought diapers, how many confidence of mummy is not so important that will be enough such quantity. Pikhologichesky readiness of mother for the birth of the child consists also of knowledge that it is necessary to it. Information on childbirth, the postnatal period and volume as it is necessary to look after the newborn, is simply necessary for finding of self-confidence. Uncertainty always frightens.
It is possible to find a huge number of different lists of what needs to be bought by the time of the child's birth in the Internet. But all the same you should make the. Someone trusts the husband or grandmothers to buy in addition missing things for the kid after his birth. Someone is not present, preferring to buy everything and in advance. Choose that strategy of actions which will result you in bigger tranquility and confidence.
The main purchases for the newborn child:
- bed;
- clothes;
- sanitary products;
Berth of the child. It is not obligatory to buy a bed. But you have to represent accurately where the kid will sleep: in a bed, a cradle, in your bed. It will not be obligatory as you conceived. You, for example, will plan a joint dream with the child, but can soon understand that you cannot get enough sleep at all when the kid sleeps at you near by. Definiteness is in how it is convenient to you to put to bed the child, just and will help further with the choice of children's furniture.
Clothes for the kid. It is not necessary to buy much everything. Each kid is individual: someone does not like to dress through the head, a romper suit with a baby's undershirt it is more convenient someone than overalls, and someone sleeps only swaddled. You will understand all this only at appearance of the child. Therefore it is important that you had a variety of children's things. Let them will be a little, but different. When you understand that it is more convenient to you - buy in addition still.
Sanitary products and cosmetics for the child. It is actually sharply necessary to have not so much by the time of the birth of the kid:
- - one you will take away several packs of diapers for newborns in maternity hospital, another will stay at home including as a sample what to buy for the husband;
- cream under a diaper;
- wet towel wipes.
All the rest can be bought in addition also after discharge from maternity hospital, and it, for example: Q-tips, cotton wool, oil, means for bathing, brilliant green, etc. What is necessary for care for the newborn you will see in maternity hospital when every morning to you the nurse for processing of the kid comes to chamber.
Well, of course, by the time of the child's birth already to have a carriage. The simplest is to ask for acquaintances whose children already grew up. Also as well as with children's things, the choice of carriages very wide and to understand your criteria for purchase of a carriage, is better at first to try to use any. Not all carriages cost little. It is possible to find a lot of time for search necessary, still being a pregnant woman. But it will be extremely offensive if after all spent forces and money the carriage bought by you is to you inconvenient. What will suit you will become clear, after the birth of the kid only after a while.
Credo which it is desirable to adhere to the pregnant woman - "I do as to me is quieter". Remove all councils and superstitions aside if they to you not to liking, and do so that to be self-assured and the readiness to accept the new family member. Still – learn to trust an important point to the husband. At first after birth of your child you will be anyway limited in opportunities. You will need to adapt to a new rhythm of life, it will be restored physically, etc. Therefore it is better for husband to delegate a part of responsibility for your general family: let him, for example, too understand brands of diapers and knows where to buy them.