Repeated marriages stopped being a rarity, and often with the new spouse you receive the whole family. The nonnative child in such circumstances can feel unnecessary, and you should fight against it. Education not of the children - difficult process which will last for years, and with which you have to cope for the sake of the love.
Instruction
1. Do not do differentiations between the own and nonnative child. This first rule which you need to acquire. It is impossible to belong better, as well as it is worse, to the, and to the stranger. Children have to receive an identical portion of care, love and also all material benefits.
2. Communicate all family more. For establishment of close contact with the nonnative child try to support constant communication between all family members. Arrange a dinner only when all gathered at home, walk in the park or you go to the forest, you go to the cinema and cafe. Generally, lead full life in which to everyone there will be a place. The child has to feel necessary.
3. Take care, love and caress to the child, without placing emphasis that he is not yours. The ideal option is to belong to it as to native, but not each adult is capable of it. Nevertheless, try to be the good parent. Embraces, strokings on the head, assistance with performance of lessons or the solution of personal problems - all this will bring together you and will let the child know that you really want to become it the native person.
4. Adhere to the uniform line of education with the native parent of the kid. About it you need to talk to mom or the child's dad. Your views of education have to be identical, otherwise disagreements will throw the child into confusion. The authority of the native person will come to the forefront, and you will be left in the basket.
5. Constrain anger and show patience. Perhaps, you will often hear phrases that "you have nobody the right for education" (more often from teenagers). These offensive words will be you to wound, but it is necessary to suffer and not to break on shout. Quietly explain that you do not apply for a role of the father or mother, and just you want to help and become the loved one for the child.