Parents is the first and most important teachers in life of the children, on their shoulders the huge responsibility for education lies. And matter not only in providing the reliable future to the child: to give it the chance to get an education and to create comfortable conditions for accommodation. The main task of parents is to help children grow decent people and to choose the correct road to lives.
Instruction
1. The basic rule in the course of education of the child is to be a worthy example for imitation. Children - a mirror of family in which they grow. The code the warm and friendly atmosphere reigns in the house, spouses sincerely love and respect each other, their children, as a rule, grow kind and emotionally steady. The child feels your relations among themselves and absorbs them, in a consequence they will form the basis of his own behavior model in family.
2. Be attentive to the children, you always treat seriously their experiences and feelings. For them it is always important to see in your person the friend and the mentor who at any time will come to the rescue and will give the necessary advice. The child will grow self-assured and it is easier to overcome all vital barriers if he knows that parents support him, and their love will be invariable despite everything.
3. Do not go too far with punishment of the child, children do not put malicious intent in the actions, they only begin to live and, naturally, make mistakes. Show patience, try intelligibly, a quiet voice to explain in what it was wrong, so you will help the child to realize the offense. You should not abuse children for the slightest disobedience, especially to resort to corporal punishments. It humiliates the child, suppresses his will, engenders in him grains of rage and aggression.
4. Always pay attention to good acts of the child and you praise it for them. Note what at it turns out. Sincerely enjoy progress of children and believe in them. The child has to know that if to try and make efforts, then it is possible to achieve desirable result. It will allow it to create the correct fixation on achievement of all future purposes.
5. Acquaint the child with work since the earliest years. Children grow lazy and lacking initiative if parents encourage all their whims and do everything for them. And it is so exciting to help adults, the child feels necessary and useful. It well influences its mentality and forms the correct idea of the world: that to receive something, it is necessary to make effort.
6. You teach children to empathize, not to be indifferent to others sorrows and problems, to help those who need it. Remarkably, when in the house there is a pet for whom it is necessary to care, and the child takes active part in it. Also the favourite toy is suitable for this purpose. Organize various mini-performances with the child, beating various situations when he can help to solve a problem of any given character or to sympathize with it. Very important task of parents is to teach children to give kindly to others, then they will grow up sensitive and sympathetic.
7. Never compare your child to others, you do not say that at him something turns out worse, than at the others. Also it is impossible to call children silly, incapable, dull, thereby you engender in them complexes and diffidence which will prevent them to conduct active and full-fledged life. Comparison of the child with itself is useful to spend some time ago: earlier something was impossible to it, but thanks to his persistent diligence and work the desirable result is achieved.
8. You teach children to love and appreciate beauty of the world around. Turn his view of various manifestations of the nature: the blue sky, the blossoming flower, juicy greens of a grass, a leaf fall, bright paints of each season. It will contribute to the development of art taste, keenness, attention to details and the environment.