For the woman the best confirmation of reliability and durability of marriage is the child's birth. But what to do if the man does not keep up the conversation about joint children? And answers all questions of the woman evasively that it is not ready yet or refers to material difficulties. The woman is before the choice: to obey to the man and to wait with the birth of the child or to try in any ways to achieve the.
Instruction
1. First of all, we will try to understand what the unwillingness of your satellite to have the child is connected with. It can be fear of cardinal vital changes. It is clear, that the birth of the child will forever change life of parents, will bring in it need to care for the defenseless person, to show responsibility, will imprison a part. The man at any age itself at heart is a child and it is difficult for it to share attention to himself with someone else. He is frightened by the fact that the woman will not belong only to it any more. Since the moment of the birth of the child, the real man will have to become a head of the family with all that it implies.
2. The clever woman will not begin to press on the darling, applying aggressive methods or long arrangements. It can lead only to the fact that the man will try to avoid a talk about the child by all means. In the same way will not result the threats stated in a categorical form in desirable effect. A task of the woman to bring the man to a thought that he wants the child. The confidential quiet conversation about the joint future has to convince it that the woman will have enough love both for the husband, and for children. Of course, there will be not enough one such conversation, but you should not force events.
3. Gradually the man will understand that the child not only will not destroy, on the contrary will strengthen family. Use an example of family friends, you descend to them on a visit. But only in case at couple everything is good, and do not tighten a visit the first time. It is good if the father of the child talks to your satellite and will tell it on the example as his life with the advent of the kid changed. But will tell not only about difficulties, but also about pleasures of full-fledged family.