How to cope with the whimsical child

How to cope with the whimsical child

All children different. Also they differ since the most birth. Someone large, someone small. Someone sleeps days and the whole nights, and someone cries day and night. And parents should find approach to the child.

Of course, it is easy when the kid quietly snuffles the whole day in the bed. But what to do if the kid for day is on hands at adults, requiring to itself constant attention? Besides classes with the kid, mom needs to be in time and to make a lunch, both to wash and to stroke!

Most often chest kids in whom the nature put inexhaustible energy are whimsical. Just it is boring for child to lie, and he does not want to sleep – he was not tired yet. In that case parents need to allow the kid to be active – to do him massage, to show various pictures, books, to talk to him, to read verses. All this by all means will tire the kid and he will want to sleep soon. 

You should not worry that with the kid something not so if he requires to himself more attention, than other children. Just he is more attached to mom and is more curious and active. It is even good, most often such kids develop and study all new with the doubled interest quicker. But it is worth being able to distinguish when the kid just is capricious and when complains of something, for example, on pain. And it is easy to make it. The capricious kid easily will distract from the tears if to interest him, for example, in the book or a toy. With the child whom something hurts it will not pass. 

There is one moment. You should not run at top speed to the kid at his first tears. Otherwise the kid will behave so for a long time: there is not enough attention – crying, there is a wish for something – crying. It is necessary to say to the kid that he arrives incorrectly, it is necessary to teach him to ask something without tears, for example, showing to a finger a word "give". And he needs to be accustomed to independence too – you should not approach the child if he quietly sits itself, without parental participation. Sometimes it is necessary to leave his one in the room, having borrowed with toys. 

In a word, it is necessary to work on circumstances. The main thing not to despair that in this family such whining kid appeared. With age it will pass, the main task of parents is to grow up it the most independent, clever and healthy.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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