Existence of sense of responsibility helps people to give the account to the acts and, in case of need, to assume fault for their commission. It means that before making any given decision, the person has to realize what consequences it can cause and to be ready to be responsible for them. In order that your child learned to treat seriously the actions made by him subsequently, it is necessary to begin to develop at him sense of responsibility as soon as possible.
Instruction
1. As a rule, to develop responsibility at the child of preschool age quite hard owing to small development of consciousness. Small children do not know all those rules which are present at ordinary life of adults. In this regard it is rather heavy to them to make the right decisions. To begin to impart sense of responsibility follows approximately from 3.5-5 years. During this period of time the child begins to treat many things more consciously. However you should not forget that training of the kid in such quality as responsibility, has to begin with small.
2. For a start learn to trust the baby. Try to ask it to make something and patiently wait for result. Then together look what the child made not so, in detail sort his mistakes, point to how it is necessary to make correctly. After that ask the child to make repeatedly what you asked. Perhaps, the kid will consider your explanations and this time will make everything correctly.
3. Try to develop responsibility at the child for own health when he is sick. Giving it medicine, tell: "Do you want to recover? Then it is necessary to drink this mixture (or a tablet)". This action will help the kid to track relationship of cause and effect which will arise between his decision and the come consequences: drank medicine – recovered. It will show to the child that a lot of things can depend on his decisions.
4. Do not ignore the child's questions. Answer them, help the kid to study everything that surrounds him. At the same time it is possible to use a playful form, to tell funny stories. But do not forget to supplement unostentatiously the story with "vital" stories, i.e. those which will be really necessary for it in life. You remember, how in the childhood: "The fairy tale – a lie and in it a hint …".
5. Gradually cultivate feeling of respect for others in the child. For example, if you are strongly hurt by the head, and your kid loudly shouts, scatters toys, stamps legs, you can tell him that to you it is very bad that you got sick. At the same time let's the child not to rustle and allow you have a rest.
6. Charge to the child care of someone (or about something). For example, buy him a little pet (a hamster, a guinea pig). Kids love animals, and your child will at once become attached to a fluffy small animal. Teach him to look after an animal and explain that now in his hands the fate of the living being, and depends only on him whether to an animal it will be comfortable or not.
7. At education at the child of sense of responsibility you should not forget that it is formed along with other qualities of character. This moment in education of the baby is very important – both for you, and for it. From that, how seriously and patiently you will approach this question, the future of your baby can depend.