To find the dream, analyze the real life and remember all the desires. And still it is possible to plunge into the childhood, to be fond of books or movies.
It is required to you
- - sheet of paper;
- - handle or pencil.
Instruction
1. To find a dream of all life, remember the most intimate desires. Remember what you dreamed of in childhood what wanted to achieve in youthful years what you want at the moment. Write out all the desires, write down even those which seem ridiculous, ridiculous and impracticable. And now choose what you want most of all from the list. Try to compare these desires or to combine them, your dream from this can turn out. It is also possible to present that you already managed to achieve something. Think what you would like still.
2. Divide the life into spheres. Now describe each of them such what you would like to see it ideally. For example, if you have the family, then think what is not enough for you in family life. Think what you would like to reach in respect of career. It is also possible to describe the ideal appearance. List all what you aspire to, then compare all this and think what would be your life ideally.
3. Books will help to find the dream. Read novels, short stories, biographies of the famous people, fantastic stories and so on. The book is the whole world and huge space for dreams. For example, reading about life of successful people or about travel, it is possible to find what very much it will want to you. It the sea can have a trip to Italy, the house or even own plane.
4. You watch movies, in some of them interesting and unusual stories are described. In the childhood many dreamed to resemble some character. And what prevents to dream of the same in adulthood? Put yourself to the place of the hero and listen to the feelings. If you feel absolutely happy person, then life of this character can become your dream.
5. To find a dream, plunge into memoirs. Remember what gave you pleasure once that at you turned out best of all. For example, if you always liked to draw, and it is excellent at you it turned out, then the successful career of the artist can become your dream. Also observe yourself in real life and find out what is an inspiration source for you at the moment.
6. Communicate to the friend, learn what he dreams of. Close people often have common interests. Therefore what your friend aspires to, can be important and for you. But the dream has to be your own, but not someone's.