Approximately from four to seven-eight years in life of the child there comes the period when it forms the relation to life and confidence in own forces. For this short time the parents need to make a lot of things to grow up from the kid of the independent, successful person.
Instruction
1. Socially successful personality will hardly grow up in family where the passive, consumer relation to life where at parents the self-assessment is underestimated prospers. Do not forget that children study, watching you. Try to be to the kid a role model. If close people are honest with the child, he studies at them to justice and will be surely honest with them. If parents are successful, and the kid will strive for success.
2. The child for development of healthy love for himself and formation of the correct self-assessment needs to know that it is loved and value it that it such what and should be. Children need to feel that parents are proud of them and do not regret that they were not born others. Remember: neither expensive toys, nor other gifts and material benefits will replace to the child of your parental participation in his life, attention and love which allows children to feel the value.
3. Remember that the numerous bans, as a rule, do not help to achieve desirable result. The kid will do everything on the contrary, annoying parents, or will apprehend it as the tough instruction for the rest of life, forming an inferiority complex. And it is incompatible with success.
4. One of the main postulates of the successful, self-assured personality - "My opinion is important for people around". And the little person has to know it. You treat any its problems not haughtily and indulgently, and seriously and friendly. Try to communicate with the child as equals, encourage his independence. But always offer the kid the help when you see that it is necessary to him.
5. Respect and support all most courageous dreams and plans of the child. Discuss them seriously. It is very important to teach the kid to recognize strengths of other children, to lose adequately, without despairing and without lowering a hand. Each person has a right for a mistake.