To buy a form and office supplies is only iceberg top under the name "school life". Long adaptation is necessary for the first grader. One of the most important tasks of parents - to help the child to cope with an academic load.
Step 1. To overcome fear of school.
The school is a new stage in the child's lives, so a stress and fear of the unknown. It is quite difficult to penetrate into educational process when the child does not understand what to wait from study for. Explain to the child in detail what classes how many fascinating opening wait for it at lessons will be.
Fears of teachers as before strangers, take place too to be. Usually photos of teachers are on a school Internet resource. Visit together the website of educational institution and get acquainted visually with all teachers. Make an instruction for the child with a name and a middle name of the class teacher.
Discuss with the child of the rule of conduct at school. Assure the first grader that he has the right for mistakes and if something is impossible to it, he can safely raise a hand and ask the teacher to explain once again.
Help the child to find friends. Get acquainted at a meeting with parents, someone can lives near you, and children will go together to school.
Step 2. To accustom the child to do independently homework
Parents consider what joint doing homework much more productively and quicker, and sometimes all try to make for the first grader it is to return to the affairs rather. You learn to trust the child the solution of homeworks.
Get additional reference materials or show to the child how to use search on the Internet. Find and add to favorites several useful websites for study that the child could find information necessary to it independently. For example:
- двойкам-нет.рф
- com
- ru
- math-prosto.ru
Accustom the child to work in the draft copy. Do not impose the help. Quietly ask whether you can help something. Suggest to check the performed draft work if it is necessary.
Step 3. The correct motivation for the first grader
To help the first grader to cope with an academic load, parents often go for bribery and blackmail in style: "Here you will make lessons - I will buy it, you will not make - you will not receive …". It is necessary to motivate correctly.
You find benefit in the most educational process that the child tried to make work qualitatively, but not just to perform a task for a prize or in order to avoid punishment. Explain, than any given subject is useful further.
Maintaining the interest of the first grader in study, do not forget that your example is important. Be interested that new and interesting to the child was set for tomorrow, and do it with pleasure. Do not express the fears concerning school aloud, and the most important: do not criticize teachers and school of the house in the presence of the child, then the first grader will have no occasion to doubt usefulness and necessity of educational process.