Sooner or later in each family there comes such moment when it is necessary to teach children to sleep separately from parents. At all this process takes place differently because each child is individual.
Instruction
1. Ideally it is necessary to accustom the child to sleep separately at the earliest age when habits only begin to be formed. Often many parents accustom children that someone has to sleep with them when continue to keep within with already matured children. It is desirable that the child initially had a separate room or a separate bed. You should not accustom to sleep him together with parents. At once after feeding stack the kid in his own bed, then it will develop a habit to sleep there.
2. If the child already more adult, it is also necessary to accustom him to sleep in own room, such way will not help. In 2-3 years the child already understands everything and realizes the role in family. All children different, and only parents know for sure how it is possible to influence the child. For example, it is possible to explain to the kid that he already big that adults have to sleep in the rooms that parents have to have a certain bedroom.
3. That the child did not feel alone at night, leave doors in your rooms open that he knew that you are near. Surely give to the kid his favourite doll or a toy, so he will feel more surely and more quietly. Then it is gradually possible to teach to sleep the child and behind closed doors.
4. If the child does not want to sleep in the room, get especially for him a children's bed or a sofa. You can take the kid in shop that he participated in the choice of furniture. So he will feel the importance and independence. He for certain will have a desire to have a sleep on the new bed.
5. Many kids feel low mom therefore they are capricious before going to bed. Let some time of the child be stacked by dad. Usually children obey fathers better therefore they will be able to fall asleep quicker and more quietly with them.
6. It is important closer for sleeping to cease to play outdoor and noisy games - children from active games are strongly excited and sleep badly. Also you should not master before going to bed new games or to give new toys – the child will be able to come off new occupation not at once. It is better to read familiar books or to play, putting to bed favourite toys.