If adult children keep the child parental relations with the parents, it leads to emergence of a set of problems in their life. Feature otnosheniydety and parents in what at a meeting everyone feels so as if to children still 6-8 years.
Instruction
1. Sometimes it is very difficult for parents to be tried on with the fact that their child leads independent life, but it is even more difficult to improve the relations with his elect or the darling. Senior generation is responsible for that these relations were kind and related. Try to see in this person that good for what he was fallen in love by your child. Even if it seems to you that it is insufficiently good choice, you should not sound it, spoiled at the very beginning of the relation then it will be difficult to restore.
2. The relations with adult children have to be based on sincere care and mutual understanding of each other. Parents have to be respectful to the personality, a way of life and the interests of the adult children and therefore they have the right to expect same in reply. Both generations need to try to build up the relationship as equals.
3. For parents it is very important to remember that it is impossible to try to control all areas of life of the matured children, beginning from household and finishing with the personal relations.
4. Even if it seems to parents that children arrive incorrectly, it is impossible to put pressure and to demand to change their decision or plans. The life experience can be gained only a trial and error method.
5. Of course, at a difficult moment parents have to give support to the children, but it has to be support, but not desire independently solve the problem which arose at the beloved child.
6. If it is about grandchildren, grandfathers and grandmothers have to understand that young parents have to take the main responsibility for their education. It is impossible, referring to the solid experience in business, education of children, to criticize or subject to doubts of a possibility of the younger generation. Grandchildren have to study the equal and respectful relations.