Each person puts something special in the concept "happiness", especially personal. Therefore there are no general, universal rules as as it is necessary to do that life was happy. However many people, answering the question "In What Secret of Happy Life?", indicate the need of respect for some simple, but very important principles.
How to become happy
Do favorite thing and you look at life more simply. Try to be defined accurately by the end of school training to what at you soul lies, and choose this occupation as the profession. Otherwise, if to choose an occupation by calculation, for reasons of prestige, material benefit, or having given in to arrangements of the family, with the probability of 99% you will feel then bitter disappointment.
Of course, and it is necessary to listen to opinion of parents attentively, and the material welfare plays a large role. But your desire has to be the main factor at choice of profession.
Do not try "to embrace the immensity", soberly estimate the opportunities. It is better to reach modest, but real success, than to threaten on business which obviously cannot do to you, and as a result to feel disappointment.
And never envy anybody. Be able to be content with what you have. And if you want to improve the welfare, to climb an office ladder, do not turn it into fixed idea. And, certainly, do not resort to disgraceful receptions! Learn to get the joy of the simplest and natural things which surround you: good weather, beautiful flower, child's smile. Be not gloomy and gloomy, you drive away gloomy thoughts.
Unfortunately, many people begin to understand such simple thing, only when they begin serious problems with health.
You make thrifty use of the health, avoid silly and unnecessary risk, addictions, whenever possible work out, sport. Remember that health – an invaluable treasure which you will not buy not at any price.
Attitude towards people around and secrets of happy life
You treat people as wish they treated you. This bible precept has to become your "guiding star". Be always polite and benevolent, even communicating with people who for some reason are unpleasant to you. Whenever possible do not deny assistance or council and do not demand anything in exchange. Choose to yourself reliable friends who will not bring and will not betray. And try to become the good friend too. Carefully choose the partner in life because the good, loving and devoted partner – the most true happiness! Generously you give it the tenderness, caress and care. If you have children, try to give them everything that it is only possible to expect from the loving and reasonable parent. Children make happy any normal person.