To impart to the child discipline – a task not from simple. Many parents fail, facing obstinacy of little hooligans. Especially as our methods of education, often are too emotional and not always correct. Try to listen to councils of experienced psychologists.
Instruction
1. The PosledovatelnostRoditelskiy sequence in general plays very large role in education, and in education in the child of obedience and responsibility especially. Decide on one of forms of obedience and on one type of punishment for disobedience and strictly adhere to the position. Time and severity of punishment can vary, but punishment has to be clearly defined. Before the little bandit decides to make the next offense, he has to realize accurately that he will wait for it then.
2. The benevolent tverdostsamy big mistake of parents is a dvulikost. We can embrace and praise the child, and in a second that there are forces to shout and stamp legs on a fault of the kid. Shout and cries it is hardly possible to achieve result. It is necessary to be gentle and friendly in relation to children, but do not cross line. Always you remember that children good manipulators, and they will surely try to strive for cancellation of the conditions which are earlier set by you. Remain the kind, but firm mentor of the kid.
3. Correct an obshcheniyepravila of behavior have to be clear for the child. If it is necessary write them on the sheet of paper and hang up in a visible place. Always explain to the baby what you from it wait for, tell examples from own life. Try to devote each free minute to communication with the child – talk, you share news, you call, be interested in his life, send SMS, etc. Children cannot read our mind – they need to be learned and edified.
4. SpravedlivostChasto we unfairly punish children, and then, realizing it, we cancel punishment. Do not do they are be fair. Before removal of punishment stop and think. By the way, to the rascal will not damage too to think of the behavior. And if after all decided to punish, then you keep the word. If you deprive of the child of the computer for a week – that it has to be exactly a week.
5. Control over the of an egovsegd motivate the acts. Often, when children show doubt about justice of our decisions, we take offense, and at this moment our ego gets the best of reason. To the forefront there is an authoritative style of communication with the kid. It is wrong since will cause only offense and anger of the child. But the main goal of education is to teach the child to do, make right thing the right decisions, and here not to do without explanations in any way.