The character of the child is shown already at children's age. And to kindergarten there are different children, everyone with the character. It will be much easier for the persistent children who are feeling confident in new circumstances to get used and adapt to a new situation. And here children shy and timid in new unusual conditions feel even more uncertainly. But also such child needs to be conducted in kindergarten. And parents need to try to make everything that is possible that the garden did not become for such child heavy serving sentence.
The problem of such children generally consists in excessive chagrin concerning any failure. And here they highly appreciate the progress not so. And in this direction work of parents has to be directed. To increase mood of the kid, to adjust it on a positive harmony, to create the positive relation to kindergarten, to companions. It is also important to teach the child not to be obsessed with the failures, and it is better even to laugh at them.
All this cannot be taught how to the multiplication table, and having jagged sowing. These qualities are formed gradually. And the main incentive – own example of parents. In the morning when collecting in kindergarten the parents have to think not of the plans for day and of how to them all to be in time. Parents have to remember that for the child it is not simply routine rise and clothing, this whole big business, and it is followed by even more grandiose event – the whole day in kindergarten, without mom and dad. For the shy child it is the whole day of work, and not at the most favourite work.
Parents have to support slight and cheerful mood of the child since the morning. He can tell some cheerful poems or stories on the way to a garden. And it is possible to compose these stories together with the child. Having come to a garden, parents should pay attention to how here it is good, cozy, cheerful and so on. And it needs to be emphasized constantly that the child took it for granted. Parents meanwhile the most important people in his lives and their opinion for him it is important. When parents came to take away the child from a garden, you should not abuse it for the soiled t-shirt, shorts or uncombed braids. Timid children already abused themselves inside much more, than parents. It is not necessary to add to them experiences. It is better to laugh friendly at it, to remember some lovely rhyme on this subject. But it is necessary to remember that laughter with words: "Well you and dirty" - it is hardly possible to call friendly.