All had to face crisis of teenage age. The period of growing is followed not only hormonal reorganization, but also various psychological changes: the fast change of moods increased by irritability, aggression, sometimes asociality. To overcome problems of teenage age, it is necessary to understand them.
In 11 years at girls and 12 – at boys the rough reorganization of an organism begins. It coincides with teenage age and is followed by various problems. It is connected with a big gap between social, intellectual and biological maturing of the individual. It makes 6-10 years.
The teenager tries to realize himself the personality all the time and to find balance between confidence uncertainty, a maturity immaturity, full value and inferiority. Achievement of a main goal by the teenager – acquisition of personal autonomy – often is followed by a junior revolt. And a task of adults to understand the teenager and to help it to become the independent personality, having overcome this hard period of his life with the smallest difficulties.
During growing the teenager becomes unpredictable. The fast change of moods accompanied strange (from the point of view of the adult) acts, a giperkopensation at which the teenager with maniacal persistence tries to achieve success in that area where he is weakest. At all these symptoms the adult has to have a heart-to-heart talk with the teenager and explain to him that all pass through similar. It is necessary to understand a situation together, to decide what results the teenager wishes to achieve and what means can lead to the purpose and what – are not present. Emergence in teenagers of idols to whose acts and behavior teenagers try to follow belongs to this age. With great attention it is necessary to treat teenage idols. Among them there can be those who bear the asocial ideas, preaches self-destruction and a cult of death. It is possible that the teenager just is in the youth fashion, without pondering upon the events. The adult's task in this case not to forbid and accuse, and to understand the child and to help him. From adults the big step and participation in the joint solution of problems is required. In extreme cases if the child becomes asocial and dangerous to people around, it is necessary to address experts who will render the qualified help.