In education of children it is always necessary to answer two key questions: "Who is guilty?" and "What to do?" With the first question everything is clear – guilty will always be.
The kindergarten and school, both the computer, and the companies, and television – everything "prevent" to become the child very best. And here with correction of mistakes it is more difficult. At bad behavior of a leg grow not one day. The truth is said that it is necessary to bring up the child while he lies across a bed.
Rudiments of character are put in the earliest childhood when parents are the only source of information on the correct behavior for the kid. So, maybe, it is worth ceasing to blame people around and to think: and a good or bad example for imitation we are for own children and what good they from us will learn?
Education – it is always difficult. And each parent at some point solves for himself: to go already beaten path or to look for the way to heart of own fumes. What actually raises our children and forms in them the personality? Certainly, there is a lot of components. But main of them is a behavior, communication in family of his own parents, regardless of that, bankers they or librarians.
Children, communicating with parents, "copy" on themselves their views, values, installations, habits.
As far as it is good or it will be not really visible when the child grows up. And for parents while the child still small and everything adopts, it is important to try to inform of the best qualities of the vision of life. We, of course, want that our children took from us only the best, but so happens not always.
You can many and long talk to the child about good and bad acts, but all talk will come down to zero if your words constantly disperse from your own acts. You can teach the whole year the child to good manners, but it is worth quarreling once at the child with the neighbor or to send a couple of strong expressions after the car which was cutting in front you – and everything, as wind blew off positive effect from all your talk with the kid.
What needs to be done? It is simple to control itself. Yes, it is rather difficult, there is a wish to change not always and there is not enough will power sometimes. But children it is better than adults see differences between words and acts. Remember if you want to be proud of acts and behavior of your child, show him it on an own example. And further life will be more positive, more joyful also nasyshchenny for all family.