Many people refuse flatly to believe in influence of a name on destiny. And at the same time are ready to argue extensively on influence on mentality of music, the verse, on impact on an organism of ultrasound or decibels of rock compositions. At last, at the laid table there are discussions about neurolinguistic programming from time to time, and the majority even of inveterate sceptics inclines to a thought of reality of it.
Instruction
1. But the name is a set of sounds, more or less melodious too, plus concrete value. In some of them yaven, say, value of names Vera, Nadezhda, Lyubov, Svetlana, Lilia and some other nobody should explain this etymological base. Others, having non Slavic origin or our, primordial, but slightly disguised by century language stratifications, nevertheless "are rather transparent". Many people, far from linguistics, will explain to a descent that Victoria is a Victory, and Sofia — Wisdom.
2. With others it is more difficult. For example, authors of dictionaries still admit that exact "root" of Alla is unknown. Whether "different" (Greek), whether "noble" (German). Perhaps therefore some media Alla and rush about from nobility to an opposite pole? Different is precisely about them.
3. With Larisa also not easy. It seems, simple sounding, but not without mysteriousness. Origin of the term carry or to Greek "sweet", or to Latin "sail", "seagull".
4. "What in a name to you we wash?" - the great poet in one of elegies questioned. It is known what in the donzhuansky list of Pushkin was a little Nataly, this name pursued it since early youth, having become fatal. Natalya — means "native", but only not warm and fuzzy. Natasha — very temperamental persons, the ambitious, not recognizing critics demanding adoration and a worship. Yes, are charming, but sometimes are artful, tender, but always waiting for something in exchange. Are cheerful, but can scoop this power, devastating people around. So appeal of other poet: "Satisfy my grieves, Natali!" — quite often hangs in mid-air …
5. Value of a number of widespread names in translations from different languages of the world: Anna — "grace", Varvara - "savage", Evgenia — "noble", Zoya — "life", Inga — "winter", Klara — "light", Lolita — "grief, grief", Maria — "unshakable", Olga — "sacred", Tatyana — "ustroitelnitsa", Ella — "light", etc.
6. There is a long tradition to name children of the family, close, kind of choosing terrestrial or already heavenly patron. Sometimes this attachment too presses, the girl is constantly compared to the aunt, the grandmother or other "sample", sometimes stopping attempts to build destiny independently. You remember the rule of golden mean: let "will do to the little girl life from whom", but it should not be the "cloned" road.
7. Whether to call the newborn in honor of nowadays well relatives? Delicate question. The national tradition of it does not recommend, and reasons for care are available. There is such "unscientific" sign: one of bearers of a name pushes out, "survives" another. Having analyzed bitter experience of surrounding families, you can also draw a conclusion whether there are bases for such version.
8. But even if everything is not so dramatic, all the same the mother has a big temptation to embody the unrealized ambitions in the successor. Besides, "forcibly", and it never does well to the continuer of a sort. Children have to find the way to lives, and it is worth beginning it at least with the starting capital in the form of own name.
9. Names cannot but render on women and men of influence, at least because they hear these sound combinations every day not one dozen times. And it is a certain sound resonance. It is good if harmonious. But if the person does not love the name, it is already disturbing call. The combination of a name and a middle name, a surname - too not an idle question, and many parents think of it, naming the baby.