Not everyone can become adoptive parents. Business here not only in the existing restrictions which, certainly, are directed to protection of the child from unfair families. Many couples just do not represent that the new child in family is not only great joy, but also a lot of work on establishment of contact and adaptation in new conditions.
For a start you have to think whether you are ready to this responsible step. Actually it is not so simple – to become parents, in fact, to foreign child. And if in you tells pity or inappropriate in this case altruism, for adoption it is the unsuccessful reasons. Unfortunately, in case of unsuccessful adoption the return of the child to orphan establishment remains only an exit. And it is a huge stress for the child and the present tragedy for your family. Before deciding on adoption, you resemble courses of adoptive parents. Such trainings are provided by psychologists with future parents who are going to adopt, accept under guardianship or in a foster home of the child. On courses you will be told what difficulties you should meet how to solve all arisen problems as will learn to react correctly to behavior of the child and the most important – how to force itself if not to fall in love with it then to accept. It is better to go to such classes together with the husband.
If after classes your desire to adopt only got stronger, time to address to local tutorship and guardianship authorities came. There will issue you the list to collect to both the husband, and the wife personally. For a start address in local Department of Internal Affairs for obtaining the certificate of lack of criminal record. It becomes within a month. During this time pass medical commission and receive the decision about state of your health in the special form approved by the Russian Ministry of Health. Take from the place of work the certificate of your income (2NDFL). In clearing house receive the copy of a condition of personal account and an extract from the house register. If you are a homeowner, provide the copy of the certificate on property. Write the short autobiography. Make copies of the passport and the marriage certficate.
Submit collected references and documents to guardianship authorities. If everything is issued correctly, to you will appoint inspection of domestic conditions. After that guardianship takes out the conclusion whether you can become a trustee or not. In case of the negative decision, you has the right to appeal against it. If the decision positive, you can begin search of the child. And here the procedure of transfer of the child to family and adoption happens only by a court decision.