Whether you had to hear expression: "It reached the ceiling!"? Probably and. And whether you know that on the way to any purpose the main barrier is not in our abilities or opportunities, and that we think of ourselves what maximum programme we set? For the person only what he considers unattainable is impossible. To overcome itself and to realize the purpose, it is necessary to take only several steps, let and difficult. So,
Step No. 1 "Belief in own forces"
Do you consider that you will not be able to find better a position, to make stronger the marriage or to receive more money? You will not find, you will not be able, do not receive! Rule first is that the world around us are our ideas of it and of the role in it. If you want to change something in the life, it is necessary to learn to think in a new way. Positive thoughts are the key to achievement of positive result.
Practical recommendation: reading the book or revising the favourite movie, concentrate on achievements of the character, but not on his failures, try on others positive experience on yourself.
Step No. 2 "I accurately see the purpose"
Nothing so leads astray as lack of understanding where you, actually, go. As you can choose, than it is better to go – to the subway, by bus or by train – if do not know the final destination.
Practical recommendations: write down what you want to achieve on paper. Set the accurate purposes! For example, specify the concrete name of a position which you want to occupy. Do not forget to specify approximate terms when all of you want to find it in the notebook.
Small psychological cunning: all your wishes have to sound only in an assertive form and only in the present.
Step No. 3 "Surprising power of desire"
Did you want to receive good salary, but pay you pennies? Means, you never really, with all the heart, in all sincerity dreamed of bigger earnings!
It is noticed that it is possible to achieve the desirable objective only if it completely coincides with your vital values and for 100% it is approved by you, but not someone from the outside.
Practical recommendations: seed the purposes on the fertile field. That they could grow in true desire. With it you will be able to be helped by popular technology of visualization of the purpose.
Step No. 4 "The plan – yours everything"
Organization and reasonableness in everything – here guarantee of achievement of the desirable purpose. Without accurate plan even the huge belief in the forces and will remain just belief.
Practical recommendations: for any plan only 10 points there are enough, each of which will display a possible way of achievement of the uniform purpose. Further it is worth specifying concrete steps which need to be made: to get an education, to pass a training, to register in sports club, etc. Walk slowly, but it is systematic.
Step No. 5 "I am open for all new"
Think of the purpose constantly, you speak about it, discuss with colleagues and friends. Surprisingly, but shortly the decision itself will come to you in hands. Will come just because you looked for it.
Practical recommendations: communicate more with people who could reach of what you only dream.
Step No. 5 "Patience and work"
Having made a minimum of efforts, you receive the minimum result. Be persistent in way, trust in the purpose, but be not afraid to change a way and a method of its realization.
Practical recommendations: having faced failure, do not give up, but analyze the reasons which led you to this state of affairs. Study on the misses!
Step No. 7 "Enjoy not only result, but also process"
If the purpose corresponds to your own desire if it is true, and you sincerely want to realize it, are not lazy to rejoice to each intermediate success. You are an athlete, and your purpose – a finishing tape at the end of a marathon running, and each overcome kilometer brings closer you to the purpose. Unless it is not an occasion to be glad and praise themselves?!
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