Unless there is in the world a person who would not like to become happy? Hardly. And here those which would like it to reach without application of efforts, just by the right of the birth or due to actions of surrounding people, a dime a dozen.
Despite of the fact that all want the few reach happiness. What's the reason? First of all, laziness, well and also ignorance of the main standards of behavior on a way to happiness. Today we will share with you councils how to become happy. However consider what needs to be done to become happy, knows already everyone. It is just necessary to listen to the inner voice.
Happiness and meaning of life
You consider that also nevezuch just because are unfortunate, all at you not as it is necessary: work does not arrange is material, psychologically, the relations with an opposite sex crack behind a crack, and friends – everything are busy with the affairs what to them to you, isn't that so? Now let's judge what you made to change this catastrophic picture of your life? You do not find the answer – means it is a high time to get down to business.
First, decide on the purposes, it is better if you write down them, and that God forbid, you will forget. In a notebook write heading, for example: how to become happy and successful. On each page write on the purpose: to find more suitable work, to improve the relations with the husband / the young man, the wife or the girlfriend. Further – to bring order with the circle of contacts, i.e. – friends. If they do not shine with devotion, just exclude "unworthy" of the life. Your circle of contacts can, both to ennoble, and to lower your personality. Perhaps, you dreamed to learn something long ago, but all somehow postponed? Write down and then precisely start training.
When you wrote down all purposes, it is possible to start the description of their achievement. What it is necessary to make to find new work to change the relations with surrounding people to learn. You perfectly know answers to these questions, strain brains just a little.
Fix the exact time
Important not only the nobility how to become the happy person, but also to fix exact date and time of the formation. Having written the purposes and ways of their achievement, determine temporary terms within which you have to cope with an objective. It is very important, otherwise you will start over again postponing everything for Monday.
Happiness in the relation
The world around us not bad, and not good, it such what we see it under a prism of own stereotypes, moods, health, etc. That is, two different persons looking at the same thing, the event will be apprehended by all in cardinally various way. Total: if not to be pleasant to you the events, most likely, it is necessary to look at it from a different angle.
Not partes or Scarlet O'Hara's principle
The famous heroine of "Gone with the Wind" all the troubles and cares (and there was them much), put off. You never know, the future day can will bring some changes, the problem in a night can be resolved. You should not leave everything on drift, of course, and here to allow the head to have a rest and to think on fresh mind – the idea not bad.
Happiness in creation of happiness
So far you break the head how it is possible to become happy, thousands, hundreds of thousands and even millions of people in the world are really unfortunate and are not in equal situation with you at all. It will not be possible to change the whole world your two hands, to cancel natural disasters and their consequences – too, but also you can make something small. For example, anonymously to transfer money for treatment of some kid, to gather with friends and to organize a small celebration with gifts in local orphanage, well, or simply, help the elderly person to pass across the road. You will be filled by happiness from understanding that you are necessary to this world, from the fact that you not senselessly consume oxygen.
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