Women and men – inhabitants of different planets. It is not surprising that men are so irritated by some habits of lovely ladies. Men show rare unanimity in the description of the most irritating acts so the girls who learned in the description of should think.
Thoughts aloud
She speaks always, even when there is no interlocutor nearby. Comments to passersby, childhood memories, plans for this evening, retelling of a conversation with the girlfriend or the conflict with the chief – the stream of thoughts is simply infinite. Depending on importance of an event only the tonality and expressivity changes.
Husbands with an experience gradually cease to notice this infinite stream of a thought, from time to time inserting "Yes, expensive" or "Is not present expensive". But such advanced state is reached by not everyone. Men are especially irritated by lectures and councils in the mode of non-feet and also requirements of the adequate reply to each remark.
Sudden offenses in insignificant occasions
More than an hour ago it was cheerful and is sociable, but suddenly something occurred. The woman suddenly becomes silent, answers questions in monosyllables, takes offense at jokes even more. On a direct question that after all happened, follows the mysterious answer: "Itself has to guess". In this place the powers of thinking even of the most bright man glitch. He is simply not able to remember what occurred in that hour for which the mood of the girlfriend was sharply changed.
Even more awful scenario – sudden tears in response to quite innocent remark or a joke. The man does not know that not he is guilty, just his steel a last straw of the general negative scenario of day. The hormonal failures connected with pregnancy, feeding by a breast, intake of some drugs worsen a state.
Long collecting and frequent delay
If the girl promised to be ready to seven, according to the man, exactly in the specified time she has to stand at the door which is completely dressed with a bag and keys in hands. According to the girl, a half of the seventh – the best moment for repainting of nails or experiments with a hairstyle. Naturally, to seven it is far from a ready state, further collecting lasts not less than half an hour. However further the man is waited by the most interesting – the message that they are late because he too long started the car.
Passion for cleaning
The real woman has to be good in housekeeping: the girl acquires this information since the early childhood. And the hostess always has to keep order in the house. As a result the huge part of free time is spent on occupations, strange in terms of men: rubbing of a tile to gloss, cleanings of bottoms of pans, an infinite raspravleniye of plaids and pillows on a sofa. But the most terrible – ejection of unnecessary things. This occupation gains the nature of a mania from some women.
It is interesting that just the property of men most often is included in the category unnecessary: favourite shabby track bottoms, old dumbbells, bound files of magazines, various "pieces of iron" of unclear appointment. Also the necessary things, for example, documents can be in a hurry thrown out. Only the army order in the room can avoid unplanned cleaning, but it is necessary to support it independently.
Everything to control desire
Psychologists consider that the need to control people and events – natural reaction to external chaos. Men accept this theory, but are very much irritated when they are constantly asked on feelings, thoughts, plans for the future and, especially, location. Perhaps, the return reaction works: need of protection of personal data.
Extent of control can be different. The most innocent option – frequent calls and messages when the man is at work, in gym or at friends. Such persistence can seem lovely only at the very beginning of the relations, but quickly tires.
The worst option – direct questions. Continuous examination to whom he just talked why he returned for half an hour later or rescheduled a meeting, force men to dodge and lie. The mutual distrust results, and control only amplifies.
Men do not like also the increased self-checking. The life according to the exact schedule which is followed by nervous breakdowns because of the slightest shift of plans can strongly irritate the people who got used to spontaneous acts. The woman trying to operate completely personal and others' life risks to lose the partner.
The list of the habits enraging men can be continued. A lot of things depend on age: representatives of the younger generation are usually more indulgent to girls. Also the relations in couple are important. The man in love closes eyes to a lot of things, including the irritating habits of darling lovely eccentricities.