To drink or not to drink? Many people daily face a similar question. Reasons for acceptance of alcohol are constantly. Whether it be the buffet reception, the successful transaction or someone's birthday, it is not of particular importance. Today in society there are such dates and holidays on which it is necessary to drink at least for tradition. However if the person does not drink at all, then no holidays will be able to confuse him. Everything depends on the principles created at him in the course of life.
The relation to alcohol at everyone is expressed differently. Happens that the intolerance of alcohol an organism is found in the person. In such situation any alcoholic drinks will be for it the real poison. But such cases are rather rare today. Negative attitude to alcohol, unfortunately, too meets not often, though is the most social and acceptable option. In fact society will hardly reach such norm. The majority of our social environment has or compromise relation to alcohol, or is indifferent to it. Neutral relation to alcohol this normal state of the healthy person. The neutrality means that the person not only is not special to take with desire alcohol, but also is not afraid of it. As showed numerous researches of the teenagers and people sick with alcoholism, emergence of the positive emotional relation to alcoholic drinks becomes the cause of the subsequent alcohol addiction. The emotional condition of the person neutral concerning alcohol, serves as a good obstacle in development of alcoholism. However the facts of life are that the people indifferent to alcohol can be counted on fingers and the concept of norm of alcohol intake cannot be. While there are various traditions and the Prohibition is not announced, people will continue to drink, and the person who is not drinking often will look among people around the black sheep. In such cases when it is impossible to be distinguished from people around in any way and there is a wish to relax slightly in the company, the person begins to fight with himself and to look for a compromise solution.
Compromise in alcohol
Each compromise is the choice of the most painless decision. Thus, if the relation to alcohol compromise, then it means that the person has a choice to drink or not to drink. Usually such relation is shown when the person drinks only in special occasions. For example, on Friday with friends he does not wish to drink, but considers that in New year a sin not to drink. Right there is a question – in what to drink difference of a compromise solution from the deliberate decision to take alcohol? Business here, first of all in stresses, inevitable and daily pursued the person. Stresses arise in situations when the person does not manage to complete the begun business, or thought process. For example, it occurs when the person is going to make a certain act, but cannot make it under the influence of external circumstances. Such examples happen to us daily. And that stress which we get from dissatisfaction of the requirements and desires corrodes our mentality from within, and can lead to various diseases later.
Most often the person resorts to the alcohol help to dull feeling of a stress and to relax. That alcohol gives only temporary relief, and then kills nervous cages even more and does to an organism the strongest harm, as a rule, very few people think. As for a compromise, in a stressful situation it is a link between desire to make as there is a wish also requirements to make as surrounding people, or circumstances expect. The compromise is the main cause of a stress. And the compromise relation to alcohol will practically not help to reduce this stress. Finally the person decides to drink or not to drink, and his mental health plays a crucial role in this compromise.
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