Very seldom it turns out so that the married couple does not face problems in relationship. The most important - during crisis not to become despondent and learn to overcome the difficult moments together.
Each woman dreams of that her man always treated her with love and respect. What joy is brought to us by those moments when the spouse gives flowers, compliments, okazvat pleasant courtesies! There is a strong wish to preserve such happy minutes forever!
But often the family ship crashes against underwater reeves of boring life and misunderstanding. And already the woman, with bitterness, notices an indifferent look, the angry phrases and the interest of the husband in other girls.
But not everything is lost! If you seriously intend to keep the marriage, then you will find several useful tips in this article.
Work over the appearance and the attitude towards yourself
Probably, common truth is known to you - if you want to change the world, then it is necessary to begin with itself. Whether long ago you looked on yourself in a mirror with pleasure? Did pleasant things for themselves, gifts? Paid to themselves compliments?
Change a hairstyle, clothes, go on a diet, make cosmetic procedures. It is possible to find room for all these pleasant things, if desired, in the most modest budget.
Remember that you not only the hostess on the house, but the Woman. Feel pleasure to be desired and then the attitude of people around towards you will strongly be changed to the best. And the first your beloved will respond.
Smile, always try to be well-groomed and you find a way to remain soft and womanly. Even if around you storms of disorders storm.
Find common interests. Resume communication
There pass years of your relations. In cares, efforts and a household routine days fly by. And to talk with each other, there is no message an interesting conversation any desire. Pressing problems, life of friends and acquaintances, the politician are discussed. And all this casually, resembling, between times.
Let's remember what you told about as you communicated in that far time of the first appointments. As everything was hotly discussed and about everything. Time to work over itself, to read books came. Gain new knowledge, be interested together. Be attentive, look narrowly at the husband that is pleasant to him, than he is keen. Attract children, play sports all family or a new hobby. Common cause always brings together.
Update power in the house
Look in a new way at the room in which you live: whether there is no stuff in cases, old ware and other nonsense because of which stagnation of energy is formed. And best of all make global repair and change furniture.
Of course all changes should be entered gradually. You will see - it is worth beginning as necessary forces and means for achievement of the goal will appear. Only when there is svobodnayam a circulation of energy in space, all family members feel psychological comfort and new, positive events are attracted in life.
One my acquaintance told that, having tried all possible means, she only in such a way returned force to the dying-away relations. She persuaded the husband to be engaged in construction of the new house! They opened building together. And it worked! Over time her husband from cold foreign person turned into loving and attentive again what was earlier. Now they already bring up grandsons.
Work over the most delicate subject
If at the nights you fill up with backs to each other, and sex is very rare and similar to performance of annoying duties, then it is necessary to enter changes urgently! Only you should not go too far and go into extremes. It shocks your husband or will cause laughter in him.
Read suitable literature. You introduce new delicately and unostentatiously. Begin to show an initiative, remember - both of you were once gentle and attentive to each other. And your nights flew by in delightful luxury. Shake from yourself years of cares, look at the native person other eyes. He is the same hot and romantic young man hidden behind a burden. Open in yourself the young girl and your nights again will become magnificent.
Do not forget - only ourselves are responsible for everything that occurs in our life. And for your relations with darling too. What they will be? To choose only to you.