Sometimes there is a question, to tell the truth or to hold back or tell lies? It seems that only the correct answer: it is necessary to tell the truth always. Deception – it is bad. But also the truth is different.
If the person doubts the success, the opportunities. If he doubts whether it will turn out at it conceived whether it is worth enhancing his uncertainty the truth about its weaknesses and shortcomings? Or it is better to hold back them, and to pay attention to advantages? And not to tell anything about weaknesses or even to tell that they are absent, and all this his suspiciousness. What of options will bring more benefit?
Therefore before telling the naichisteyshy truth, it is worth thinking – it will bring benefit or will do much harm to the person or human relations. One of the most beloved questions in any couple, is a question of the former men or the partner's women. Is itIs it necessary truthfully, honestly and in detail to answer this question? For the relations it is much better to mention only briefly, without sentimental details even if these memoirs are lovely to your heart. Was and was, all this already passed. Therefore is called the past.
In the given examples it is quite obvious that some situations just demand concealing of the truth. Also you should not think that it is deception and it is bad. Yes, you should not deceive darling. In any situation the truth is better, than a lie. But it is possible to tell this truth too differently.
And if the truth has to be said, but it is bitter and will not lead to anything good, then before a conversation it is necessary to think well. Whether this conversation is really necessary? To they are to you or your partner? How will he be reflected in the relations? What if it is simple not to touch upon this subject? If it is necessary to mention, then what ways of presentation of the truth are? Always there are several options. It is necessary to analyze what of them the most painless, will not do harm, pain and offenses. And only after the careful analysis of a situation and answers to all these questions to itself, it is possible to start a conversation. Also you remember: before you darling. Should not be your purpose to throw out on him all truth and to leave with it alone. Help him. Encourage. Be near. And if the relations are impregnated with sincerity, tenderness and love, then even the most bitter truth will not destroy them. If, of course, it is told with that love. And it is even better to think of it even earlier. Before making acts, it is necessary to think of how you will tell about them to darling or darling. And, perhaps, it will be possible to avoid many mistakes.