Any girl in the dreams plans to meet the man, native on spirit, who will carry her on hands, to understand and support implicitly. When the meeting with such man takes place, everything turns out not so brightly and festively as it was dreamed. There passes time, and the ceasing passion is succeeded by everyday life with the quarrels, discontent, misunderstanding and mutual claims.
Literally in year or two family lives of the spouse already well know each other, and can predict each following step or the word of the soulmate. Just at this moment the passion begins to cease, and here quarrels, a claim and discontent with each other erupt with an improbable force.
The relations can change. And they either will develop further, or will descend on "no". The second option is possible in case one of partners agrees to change and work on himself, and there is no second. If both spouses are ready to develop the relations and to go forward then it is worth having patience – it is work practically of all life.
What to do again to approach the beloved husband and to continue to develop the family relations?
Several councils:
1. Surely analyze the behavior. You should not criticize the spouse all the time, to constantly express him discontent. Romanticism and claims – things incompatible. And here your husband can begin to seek tranquility elsewhere.
2. Discuss a cooling subject with the husband. In a benevolent form explain him the fears, and ask for suggestions, as the wise man.
3. Begin to take care of the own life – register in a strip plasticity – and for darling a pleasant surprise, and advantage for a figure and health. Change image. Start wonderful tradition – once a week to do nothing, to provide this time to itself. Surely allocate such day and for the man, having unloaded it from cares of children, of family. Try to put the "internally I" for yourself on the first place. Get the joy of communication from by itself. Your man will see as far as you appreciate yourself, and, believe, he will begin to appreciate you too.
4. Start tradition to organize appointments. Plan several meetings together with the husband, – make one a pleasant surprise. Give the chance to your man also to plan an appointment surprise for you.
5. Do not avoid subjects about sex, discuss more often, so both of you will understand, as it is pleasant to whom and that needs to be changed.
6. Try to communicate during the day more about various subjects: nature, dreams, fashion, plans, etc. Embrace the man more often – it perfectly strengthens the relations. Bring together also partners and family breakfasts and dinners.
One of main rules to achieve success - to cease to perceive the husband as villain, the idler or the villain. Once you chose it, and together to you to walk on life therefore the relations need to be improved. Wait a minute you remember everyone what you aspire in these relations to. If you are made scandals – swear on health and if your purpose – the strong and loving family – begin, first of all, with yourself!