Often there are situations when the love interferes with the pacified friendship of young people. People in love are so absorbed with each other that often do not notice reproachful remarks of close friends and girlfriends. That in such situation not to lose the relation with the close girlfriend, it is important to build communication with it in a certain way.
Instruction
1. You do not hurry to tell about the love to the intimate girlfriend. Report that you need to think, understand yourself, the emotions, etc. Happens very difficult to master the overflowing feeling of love: it "pours out" outside, and there is a wish to tell and tell about the experiences. Create the personal diary. Write down in it everything that comes to mind.
2. Instead of bothering the girlfriend with monotonous stories about the guy, find a way to put "stream" of the feelings on the right track that is important both for love, and for the friendly relations. For example, try to write music, verses, draw or sing. Lyubov is capable to disclose your talents and it is essential to affect further life.
3. Do not forget that your happy state can act absolutely differently on people around, in particular, on your girlfriend. She can be glad for you, and, on the contrary, threaten yours with her the relations, begin to envy and worry concerning the relations with an opposite sex.
4. Have a talk with the girlfriend and explain to her that despite emergence in your life of the young man you do not intend to lose friendly relations with it.
5. When you understand what place in your life is taken by your relations with the guy and your feelings are how strong, report about it to the girlfriend, agree about a meeting, communicate. If you are sure of gravity of the relations with the guy, acquaint him with the girlfriend. But do not let the girlfriend in your relations with darling, you keep her at arm's length. Be limited to the general courtesies, but behave sincerely and friendly. If you value her friendship, let it know that it is pleasant to you to communicate with it, and you do not intend to lose it.
6. Periodically organize a hen party. Such meetings will allow you to find time for the girlfriend, to have a rest, posekretnichat and once again to remind her that you did not forget about it that you still consider her the loved one in spite of the fact that you cannot find for it as much time how many you gave earlier.