After women marry, they often focus the attention only on housekeeping and education of children. At the same time, unfortunately, narrow a circle of the interests and acquaintances, are engaged in the appearance and personal development insufficiently. And there comes such critical moment when they suddenly notice that they lost the former interest of the husband. What to do not to come up against a similar situation?
Instruction
1. Try soberly and unvarnished to estimate the situation. Put yourself to the place of the husband and take a detached view of the merits and demerits. Whether he sees you same what you were at acquaintance? Whether it is interesting to it with you now? Whether correctly you behave in various situations (at communication, in intimate life, etc.)? If reflections led you to the sad fact that the attention of the husband fell, begin to act.
2. First of all try to think up to yourself a new image to diversify your relations. It is simple if you have magazines, movies and the Internet. Be engaged in the appearance. If it is necessary, restore the figure, take for the rule to look after regularly the skin, do not forget about cosmetics existence. If there is such opportunity, register in some sports section or at least begin to run in the mornings.
3. Reconsider the clothes and without regret throw out all sad, close, unfashionable things. Open magazines or the Internet and look that now people carry. You walk on shops with clothes and look for what is necessary for your new image.
4. The problem of loss of interest of the husband can lie much more deeply than your appearance. Whether you are interesting as the interlocutor, how the person having some "highlight"? Remember that there are one million things in which it is possible to be engaged, besides standing in kitchen and cleaning of rooms. You can learn to draw, photograph, sing, dance, to drive the car, to speak French, etc. Read more and self-study. First, it is better, than "soap" series in the mornings, and, secondly, in yours with the husband a joint talk new, not hackneyed subjects will appear.
5. Become the good interlocutor for the husband. Tell him about the feelings and thoughts more often. Learn to listen carefully to him. Show interest in its affairs and problems. If you show that are capable to be not only a housewife with limited intelligence, but also the woman who is able to listen, give a piece of good advice, the price to you will not be. Your husband, as well as all people, needs the person who can express discontent with a state of affairs, "to be cried in a vest", to dump tension, to share joy or progress, to see a smile and understanding on the face of the interlocutor. Do not disappoint him in these expectations.
6. Try to surprise the husband more often. It can be the simplest things, for example, an unusual dinner by candlelight, the beautiful dress, some souvenir which would speak about your feelings is dazzling …
7. "Be not obsessed" only with the husband. In the world there are other people, friends and girlfriends with whom interestingly and it is useful to communicate. And it is necessary to cram to be jealous your soulmate slightly from time to time. Your husband has to see that you are interesting not only to him.
8. Try to find common interests and to happen from time to time together. For example, sometimes you go with the husband to the park for a walk, in cafe or restaurants, for sorties on the nature, in bowling or for a skating rink. Or even on soccer or boxing.
9. Never neglect problems in sexual life. Do it unexpected and various. Forget about indispositions and "headache". Finally, it is your beloved with whom to you it should not be bad, as well as to him with you.