Parents often show excessive guardianship in relation to children. They do it not because try to be tyrants but because very much love them and show care in everything. To teenagers of it not to understand, they want freedom: to attend parties, to meet friends. And how, at such contrast of views to convince vigilant parents to release you, for example, in club?
Instruction
1. Try to explain to parents that you want to visit the decent place where there are no addicts, drunkards, representatives of dysfunctional families, etc. Do not row - abuse will not help, will only make the relations cool. Everyone will prove the case. And if the quarrel drags on for a long time, then you risk to lose also any other privileges, for example, of purchase of the computer or other long-awaited thing. As a result you do not visit club, and adults will think that they grew up the idler.
2. Tell that you will go with friends. Sometimes parents ""point a finger"" at someone from your friends and say: ""Look what good boy (girl), diligently studies, decently behaves"". If you manage to persuade such ideal to go with you, then the severity of the father with mother will obviously hesitate for a time. Definitely it will be pleasant to them that you will be in the quite good company.
3. In the presence of the young man (girl), it is possible to convince adults in common. Especially, if they not against your relations. Especially as the loving couple can remind them youth. Nostalgia will force to be touched and change the unshakable opinion.
4. When at you is, than to brag, it is possible also such arguments to use. For example, estimates in the diary (record book) whether house cleaning some other help can please. Thus, you will be able quite to deserve rest. If your behavior did not differ in obedience to a visit of club, then surely promise that after this event, you will become the exemplary child. Understand that for parents you forever will remain a kid, it is only possible to reconcile to it. To be at war with them it is useless, show the love and attachment better. It will be pleasant to them, and to you it will be so simpler wishing to receive. Think that too sometime you will become the father (mother) and you will be influenced by all difficulties of education of the teenager.