If the wife left you to the lover, so something did not suit her in your relations. And now it will be required not only to correct to you a situation, but also to prove that similar will not repeat any more. Women go on such steps only in extreme cases. And, as a rule, very seldom return to husbands who cannot provide them comfortable life. You will have only one chance to prove that you love it and can make happy.
Instruction
1. For certain you know for what reason you were left by the wife. And now you will need to correct a situation. It is necessary to make it as soon as possible that it had no strong feelings to the new partner. Begin with understanding of a problem. You have to treat it as well as your spouse, i.e. begin to hate.
2. If you were apathetic, become more active if you worked at low-wage job, find another if you made scandals and quarrels, address the psychoanalyst that he corrected your behavior. Of course, it is possible to go to it, only if you have very strong feelings. Think whether you love the spouse or just you feel offense because of its leaving. It is necessary to begin fight for the woman only if you really love it.
3. Try to eradicate all the shortcomings. Your wife has to see you from the new party. Only this way you will be able to win her sympathy again. Become such what it wants to see you. Become, but do not seem its ideal. Otherwise your reconciliation will be temporary.
4. Solve all its problems even if absolutely insignificant. Make for it a dinner, throw out garbage, clean up the apartment. Believe, the woman will estimate it and will draw for herself the corresponding conclusions. You give her gifts, let it will be even absolutely modest souvenirs. The woman loves not only the man, but also his attitude towards herself. And if you do for her a lot of things, she will be more favorable to you.
5. Do not forget to pay compliments, sincerely and with all the heart. Always pay attention to how it looks. If you notice a new hairstyle or a dress, tell how they go it. To men such trifles are not important, and here for the lady to hear it – pleasant surprise.
6. In communication remember the best moments of your joint life. Do not argue and do not swear at the spouse. Also try not to criticize her. You remember, she took such step because of yours with her addresses. Understand her, for certain she told hundreds of times to you about problems in family life, but you did not listen to it. And now you reap the fruits of the carelessness.
7. Become its ideal, only this way you will be able to win the woman again. If you really change for the sake of her, then will return love and respect of the spouse.