It is possible to remain for the husband the only beloved throughout all life the little. The reasons for treason can be different: hobby, boredom, attempt to find something that the wife, aspiration to new feelings, etc. could not give. Exit options from an unpleasant situation too a set, and it is necessary to look for the most suitable to the victims of treason independently.
Instruction
1. Calm down and do not panic. Having learned about treason of the husband, women often feel pain, the anger, hatred, keen desire to revenge, and then devastation and bitterness. Leave for couple of days to the girlfriend or to parents, cry, talk to somebody about the grief, but do not make any important decisions in a temper. Do not make scandals and the more so do not turn out the husband. Wait until you are able quietly to argue.
2. Solve, you want to remain with the husband or not. You remember: to live with the man after treason, it is necessary to manage to forgive sincerely, otherwise the offense and doubts in fidelity of the beloved will torment you very long time. If you decided to leave, make it, without paying attention to threats, arrangements and promises to throw the mistress. If wanted to keep family – fight up to the end.
3. Try to understand what pushed your husband on search of love of the mistress. If you cannot look at current situation from outside, ask for the help the psychologist. Having found out the reason, eliminate it. For example, if you understood that the husband was fond just a little and decided to start a short affair, provide him stable and quiet family life. It is unlikely the man to decide to change it for the woman who is interesting to him only in a bed.
4. You do not revenge and the more so you do not bring the lover to spite of the husband. When only one partner changes, the situation still can be saved, but when both wallowed in a lie, an exit only one – a divorce. If you want to annoy the mistress and to destroy her communication with your husband, use the force not brute, but cunning. For example, begin to send it bouquets of flowers with passionate anonymous messages and be convinced that they are brought at those moments when your husband and his mistress together. The man for certain will suspect that the mistress changes him, and it will help you to destroy their relations.
5. Be not obsessed with the grief. Replace an interior, visit beauty shop, make a new hairstyle, communicate to old friends, indulge yourself with a visit of cinema or expensive purchases, cardinally change the image. You seek for changes and pleasant feelings, and then it will become much simpler to cope with treason of the husband.