Many parents do not even know, than there lives their child. They are so busy with the affairs that there is practically no time left for it. But is more main for us - not work and money. The child always has to be on the first place.
Instruction
1. In such families the adults do not find it necessary to care for internal state of children. As a rule, they are not interested relationship of the child with peers, do not find it necessary to consult about his school affairs. Sooner or later it leads to misunderstanding and the conflict between parents and the child. It is better not to wait for such moment. It is necessary to affect advancing, to be in constant contact with the child, to be aware of all his affairs.
2. But to save the child from violence, it a little. It is necessary to explain and tell about all precautionary measures constantly. It is necessary to speak quietly and clear that the child understood what you want from him to achieve. You do not shout at all and do not intimidate him - it can lead to the fact that the child will begin to avoid all. As it is sad, but recently cases of rape and depravity of children is not a rarity.
3. How to help the child to avoid it? The threat proceeds not only from aggressive tyrants, to it alcoholics, addicts, hooligans and so on belong. There are tyrants still hidden, veiled. From outside they seem absolutely normal people. They have a few other purpose, it is in tempting. Such people often entice candies, toys, ice cream, can thrust in guides. Girls, especially with first on the sixth class, easily make contact with such people. It gives additional confidence to the tyrant, he tries to win over the child. During sexual actions he convinces the child that it is a harmless game.
4. Very often veiled tyrant is the person who is in continuous daily contact with children. It can be the school teacher, the tutor, the head of a circle and so on. Most often children who were started in respect of sex education become the victims. Many of them lost feeling of bashfulness, thanks to adults, others are brought up in extreme severity from adults, and during sexual harassments just do not dare to show resistance.
5. Therefore parents have to explain to the child in what difference between respect to senior and unconditional submission. The child has to learn to speak "no" if he sees that want to do it pain or harm. It is very important that the child on walk always was among the friends, but not one. Because someone from them will be able to tell "no", and perhaps will even call parents or other adults. It, certainly, will frighten the malefactor, and he will surely recede.