Sooner or later treason of one of spouses can reveal, however even such, apparently, desperate situation can have quiet and peaceful resolution.
If the man learns about treason of the spouse, beloved need to talk seriously. Here only before such conversation the wife needs most for to be defined whether she wants farther to keep family and to ask the husband about forgiveness or, perhaps, to pack things and to leave this person in the past. If with the second options everything is clear, in case of the first, the woman should make serious correction of mistakes. However, anyway, most likely, big scandal will not manage to be avoided.
Remember that only the woman cannot be guilty of an adultery situation from the wife. Try to understand for yourself the treachery reason. Most often the carelessness of the husband, banal boredom, suspicion on men's treason or new love concerns them. After it becomes clear to you why you made up the mind to such step, be well prepared for a conversation with darling, the spouse will begin to ask on the one who is he is his rival as long at you with it communication what feelings you to it have.
Choose a right moment for this difficult conversation and try to tell what became the reason of your incorrectness. Have patience and be ready that the husband it will become simple to listen not to you. In that case you should wait until he does not cool down and itself will not bring up this subject. Apologize to the darling, promise nevermore to make similar mistakes. Most likely, if the spouse after all decides to give you the second chance, you still long time should return his trust. Try to return more to this subject, to a thicket be interested in what concerns your spouse (men love when listen to them), be attentive, patient, gentle, you spend together with darling more time, remember the pleasant moments of in common lived years more often, pay special attention to the intimate life and create romantic mood. If the spouse decides not to forgive you and will ask a divorce, do not arrange hysterics and scandals, you remember that partly you destroyed the love. Release this person, give him the chance to become happy in other respects. Besides, perhaps, and you will shortly find the person whom you will never betray. Over time everything will rise on the places therefore you should not despair, suffer and be depressed.