You corresponded and can even exchanged calls with your virtual friend, spoke about everything, considered photos, and suddenly decided that you want to meet. And immediately questions arise in the head: how to be prepared for the first appointment what to put on, where to go and about what to talk?
Instruction
1. Choose the suitable place for the first appointment. It should not be too noisy and with a big congestion of the people. At the same time, for the first appointment you should not choose deserted or boring places. In advance think over a route then long not to think, where to go further. The organization of the first meeting, as a rule, lies on the man. However if desired it is possible to consult to the girl and to choose the option offered by her.
2. Try not to be late for a meeting. Remember that only the woman can be late, for the man – it is indecent. The punctuality demonstrates education and personal culture. To arrive to a meeting in time – means to be respectful to other person.
3. When choosing clothes for the first appointment do not forget about a saying "Meet on clothes …". If you were going to go to theater, then do not take in head to put on a sports suit and sneakers. To the contrary, if the appointment is made in the park, you should not dress an evening dress. When choosing clothes try to avoid dullness and the ordinary. The first impression of a type of the person has to be pleasant and joyful. And at the same time, you have to look as looked in the photo which is posted online. It is necessary that you were recognized at a meeting and were not disappointed in dissimilarity of the original and a photo.
4. The first appointment should not be too long that on the one hand nobody was tired, and with another - to cause desire to meet still. You do not hurry with conclusions about the person after the first appointment. Perhaps, tension and constraint prevented to recognize each other to you that is very characteristic of the first meeting.
5. Think over a topic of conversation in advance. The first appointment is not a monologue about itself and the life. For certain in the course of correspondence you learned about of what your virtual friend is fond. And if the sphere of its interests for you is unknown, try to broaden the horizons that to you was about what to talk before a meeting. Be adjusted on to listen more to the interlocutor, but not to speak about themselves. It is necessary to avoid unpleasant and heavy subjects for a conversation, for example, such as policy, crime, money, the last relations.
6. Be ready that the person about whom you knew only that he told about himself will be at all not such to what you presented him. Very often the image arising in imagination in the course of communication online differs from the fact that you will see when you meet this person in reality. The main thing to understand that you will meet that which you do not know. Do not count your correspondence, the questionnaire, and photos. You should recognize the person anew.