Having learned about pregnancy, women begin to think of how they will bring up the child. What for this purpose needs to be done? When the kid was only born, the only thing that is required from mother to be good, – to satisfy all his requirements.
Theoretical knowledge of the correct formation of an organism of the kid is necessary. It is necessary to monitor its physical and mental development. At the slightest suspicions on problems with health it is necessary to address for consultation the pediatrician.
Maturing, your tot, except a dream and food, will require attention to himself. Therefore good mother during wakefulness of the child will be near. To certain age the whole world of the child is made in mother. At this time the visual contact is very important. So the emotional interrelation between children and mother is expressed. It is necessary to leave all cares for later and to be engaged in the kid.
How to become the best mother
Mother wants to hear from the child that she is the best. Perhaps, the adult concept about it differs from children's a little. When your child has other interests, except food and a dream, it becomes more difficult to find a common language. There are effective ways as it is necessary to behave with children one day to wait for desirable recognition.
Good mother will always have time for the beloved child. Do not refuse to it communication. As a last resort, if are strongly busy, promise to talk a bit later. And as soon as be released, sit down and have a talk. Parents have to be aware always of affairs of the beloved child. Communicate with children on an equal basis. They do not love when they communicate with them, as with small.
Respect the choice of the child. It is impossible to speak constantly "no". Let is mistaken, "fills cones". If, of course, it is not life-threatening. It is not necessary to force children to do that they do not want and to forbid to do what is pleasant. For example, to be engaged in playing a musical instrument if it likes to play soccer more.
Your actions have to be consecutive. For example, you told at once that it is impossible to take your phone, follow this ban. Even if the child begins to be capricious, do not recede. As a result he will understand that your word – the law. It will lead to respect from its party.
Show love for the child. If he made something good, do not forget to praise him. Develop the system of encouragement for the correct acts. If something bad, explain what so cannot be done and why. Always reason parting words. However do not forget to say that you love the child, despite everything.
It is noticed that in family where all often gather, children are happier. Joint campaigns, picnics and just family feasts bring to children more joy, than new toys. Do not feel sorry for time and forces for the child, and then you will become the best mother.