How to begin to meet the girl

How to begin to meet the girl

Sometimes happens so: the guy saw the girl who was pleasant to him. There is a strong wish to approach, get acquainted with her, but as if something holds. Here and the shyness (especially if he is timid, reserved at heart), and fear to seem tactless, persuasive. And the fear to be refused, especially, in derisive and malicious tone, stops too. It will be pleasant to whom if make a laughing-stock of you! But you remember: he who takes no chances drinks no champagne!

Instruction

1. Try to calm down, concentrate and think: what way of acquaintance the best in this situation?

2. If the meeting took place at a party at friends or acquaintances where, as a rule, the free, relaxed atmosphere is the simplest case. Invite her to dance. The best way of acquaintance just does not exist. And the malicious refusal definitely does not threaten you.

3. Or calculate with which of your friends she is familiar, and ask you to present each other. Or listen what she speaks with others about, try to present a focus of her interests, and start a conversation on a similar subject. There is a lot of ways!

4. If the meeting took place in bar or cafe – it is quite possible to arrive as it is accepted at Americans. To approach it and to tell: "Hi! My name is Vasya". By all means with a smile, politely and unostentatiously. In most cases, the girl at least for observance of rules of politeness will answer a greeting. And it means – the contact took place. Further everything depends on you.

5. It is more difficult to get acquainted on the street for a number of reasons. But too it is quite real! – try to understand the main thing in what mood the girl. If she is obviously angry or anxious with something, it is better not to risk. In the same way – when she hurries.

6. Otherwise, you can politely ask it where there is a next … Options weight: library, regional justice, dental policlinic, drugstore, veterinary clinic, etc. Further, depending on her answer, improvise.

7. If it bears obviously heavy bag, can offer it the help – to the next subway or to the bus stop, for example. The main thing – try not to assimilate at the same time to the character of Arkady Raikin who, having roared: "And well, give here! I will help!" then sincerely was surprised: to inform informed and where the woman got to?

8. After all, take courage (or impudence, is more visible to you) and blurt out: "Girl! You such beautiful, such charming. I very much want to get acquainted with you!" It is quite possible what will work.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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