Education of the child – difficult process which requires the maximum return and patience. It is necessary not just to carry out methodical process of education and and to make the baby happy. Unfortunately, not all parents know how to make it.
At first sight, all it seems rather simply. The kid needs to be loved, to respect, indulge and so on. But where there passes this thin side from love for permissiveness, from the dear and quiet child to the uncontrollable hooligan? You should not be afraid to indulge children, the main thing is to feel internally when it is worth stopping. Not without reason say that all children mercenary. They wait from parents (and at times and demand) for gifts and sweets as they quickly get used to them. It is worth moderating this process for one simple reason: the child can grow up spoiled and uncontrollable.
But what after all it is worth doing that the child grew at happy?
First, it is worth teaching him to think positively. Is to positively adjusted people in life easier. They transfer difficulties better and quicker solve complex problems, remaining at the same time quiet and judicious.Secondly, the kid needs to let know that situations and actions should be estimated objectively. A positive spirit – it, certainly, is important, but sensible assessment of the events is necessary too.
Thirdly, the child always should say that he is loved and that it is special. The main thing is not to go too far. Everything is good moderately. If the child does not feel it, then at him, perhaps, there will be complexes, the diffidence will appear. All this will affect further life and on its relationship with society.
Fourthly, you should not press on the child and to criticize him. If he does something not so, then it is necessary to inform of it him quietly. On points to tell how to make it in a different way.
Fifthly, it is necessary always to teach the child to achieve the objectives. For this purpose it is necessary to estimate chances really. It is not necessary to set not feasible tasks for it. After fiasco the kid can be closed in himself and is painful endure it.
Anyway, it is always necessary to listen to heart. It will prompt how to behave in different situations and that needs to be made for this purpose that the child was happy.