When people long communicate, changes in one of them are often perceived in bayonets. The girlfriend who was such familiar and predictable, suddenly began to behave in a different way. It brings into bewilderment, it does not become absolutely clear how to communicate with her further. The direct conversation will help to understand friendship.
The girlfriend became a lesbian - whether it is necessary to stop communication
Every year the attitude towards people who practice same-sex sex becomes more loyal. Many of them openly speak about the preferences, without hesitating to cause negative reaction of people around. They defend the choice, do not want to dodge, hiding the preferences. The girls who were smitten with love for the same great ladies openly speak about it to friends and girlfriends. And some of them perceive this information quite aggressively. Though there is nothing especially terrible in it. Everyone is free to make the choice whom to let in the bed. The sexual relations do not affect friendship in any way. The behavior with relatives of such person most often remains the same.
Not all lesbians look like men and behave like men. Many of them look like normal girls. In the arms of women often pushes their disappointment in men.
To understand how to behave with the girlfriend who became the lesbian, it is necessary to talk to her frankly. To specify, it is how serious her new hobby and what feelings she has to old friends now. If she answers that the relation did not exchange, friendship and remained for it important, she wants to continue it, then it is possible to be quiet. It is unlikely the girlfriend suddenly will begin to do hints, suggesting to expand communication borders. But also in this case it is better to warn in advance that you are not going to change traditional orientation. Tell that you can be on friendly terms as earlier only if it does not interweave sexual implication into communication. Most likely, such conversation will resolve all issues, between you there will be no half-word left, friendship will be such as earlier.
Do not scold a friend because she changed her attitude. Remember that it's her life and her choice. Maybe she needed this experience to understand what she really wants.
How to behave with the friend lesbian
People, the made decision not to hide from others the dissimilarity, very often become lonely. Friends turn away from them, cannot accept their new essence. The reasons for this purpose are not enough. The fact that the person sincerely says that he is pleasant to him, testifies to his honesty in relation to itself and relatives. Also you should not reject it at once. On the contrary, if the girlfriend revealed the secret, it needs to be supported. At least what to behave with it as earlier, without remembering nonconventional bents. She will be grateful to simple human support during this rather difficult period of reconsideration of the life.