Education of the child in incomplete family – a task extremely difficult, and is not important, it is about the boy or about the girl. But each floor has features to which it is worth being paid attention. The main complexity of education of boys in incomplete families is that it has no example for imitation.
1. First of all it is necessary just to believe that you will be able to bring up the man and without support of the biological father. Of course, its presence could facilitate a task significantly. You need to understand that the incomplete family does not mean yet that you will have problems with education. Just you should play two roles and to apply thin and very competent approach to the child.
2. The relations with mother at the child are shown through feelings and emotions, with the father – through acts. Usually the woman is considered as a source of heat and love, and the man as the head coach who directs children to achievements. Therefore it is necessary to you works for two, developing not only a spiritual condition of the kid, but also motivating it to do right thing and adequately.
3. First of all, it is necessary to you will learn control. Do not dare "to zalyubit" the boy, to make him coddled and sensitive. The man has to be able to fight back therefore do not demand from him implicit submission. From 3-4 years it is possible to begin itself to limit. It is considered that at this particular time the character of the child begins to be built up.
4. You should not limit communication of the child with adult men. If you have relatives or friends with whom the child can communicate, then try to invite them more often. Ask to take your son on fishing, release together to watch football or send it to a campaign. You should learn to share men's interests and to discuss with it "boyish affairs".
5. Accustom the child that he is your chief assistant, your protection and a support. When the boy becomes more senior, ask it to carry heavy bags. Gradually you teach it to handle tools and be not afraid to ask to make some housework. You need to impart to it independence that he was able to find housework.
6. You should not be jealous the son of his friends. Boys are in communication and friendship in great need. Besides, it often can come home with bruises, he should play active games and even to fight. You should not do from this the tragedy as through this period there has to pass each man. You watch only that it did not get to "the bad company", but also fixedly you should not control it too.
7. It is not necessary to be frightened sports sections which will be chosen by the child even if it will be fight or boxing. Respect the choice of your son. Besides, they will help it to regain quite good physical shape that will facilitate his life in the future. If the chosen sport is not pleasant to it, he will leave, but you should not influence somehow it or to reproach.