The lifestyle of the person, his character and habits in many respects depend on an environment. If among your friends and colleagues there are generally positive, successful and purposeful people, you also gain these positive characteristics. It is necessary to change the environment in case you want to improve yourself and the life.
Instruction
1. If you want to change the environment – begin to change. An environment is your mirror, the indicator. You attract to yourself people very similar to you. You like to discuss rumors – gossips will reach for you, you prefer to spend evenings in bar – boozers will become your friends, you consider yourself the loser – around you there will be same luckless persons. And here to serious, purposeful, creative and business people with you it will be uninteresting.
2. Make the list of qualities which you want to see at the environment. And then try to define places where you can get acquainted with the people having these qualities. It is possible to meet perspective persons at thematic exhibitions, seminars, conferences. On these actions the people are open for acquaintances and communication.
3. Find the general common ground with new acquaintances. If you do not make it, will perceive you as the person from other planet. Read the literature intended for your potential friends, attend the corresponding trainings. Try to present that you one of these people, and your thinking gradually will begin to change.
4. A good environment is such people who are one step higher than you. You will be able to adopt at them new behavior models, positive subconscious programs, to catch their enthusiasm and cheerfulness. But also you have to be interesting and useful to these people. It can turn out that they lack attention, participation, support.
5. At some point your work on itself and a new environment it can turn out so that with an old circle of acquaintances at you all binding threads will disappear. If you want to leave some people in the environment, explain them the reasons of change of the outlook and try to keep with them communication. The same who tries to tighten you back, to lower your self-assessment criticism, it is necessary to ignore.
6. Remember that an environment cannot exchange suddenly. But if you want to change it and will use for this purpose certain efforts, finally you will reach the desirable.