Today many experts are sure that the institution of the family in all civilized world degenerates, despite powerful state regulation of this sphere of activity. Perhaps, ahead the mankind expects a new round of collapse of human values which will be connected with leveling of the importance of a so-called "cell of society". However now traditionally focused citizens still try to choose to themselves wives and husbands.
The keeper of a home has to conform to certain requirements without which existence of such serious design as family is impossible. Of course, numerous psychological works and also literary works of all directions and forms, as they say, "from a century" bear in themselves a set of thematic recommendations. However it is important to modern person to define accurately not "color scale" of romantic reasonings with such concepts as, for example, "love" and "without you I will die", namely rational grain which will serve as incontestable basis and the indestructible beginning of patrimonial accessory.
Now cosmopolitan processes in the civilized world develop in the complete antithesis with the statement of family (patrimonial) values which are most adapted in Third World countries with their traditional attachments. All these cultures focused first of all on religious grounds by the definition cannot exist without tough rules, including also the precepts of law governing the family relations. However high dynamics of modern life in the developed countries does the person to more selfish in this aspect of activity. And therefore today the relevance of a phrase "is already lost to give birth to the son, to build the house and to grow up a tree" which as a monument to the leaving era can raise only a smile now.
To put it briefly, if to consider family firm value, then it is necessary to understand accurately on what basis it has to be under construction. And the married couple can act as so-called "cornerstone". And, bearing in mind that the keeper of the center the wife is after all, and her choice needs to pay worthy attention.
It is important to understand that for the choice of the wife the potential husband has to be guided first of all by own logic, but not such, for example, often found reasons as "it is pleasant to my mother", etc. Thus, the relation of close people needs to be considered always minor. And in general this requirement to future spouse it is necessary to unite one phrase "loyalty of relatives". And this concept includes also such aspect as motherhood.
So, the list of the reasons for which the woman can fully be considered the worthy candidate to the wife's "position" following.
Relationship of the sincere organization. It is shown not in obligatory identity of views of the main aspects of activity, namely in basic approach to any problem. That is, it should not be essentially important to future spouses to love, for example, one color, weather, the brand of a car, clothes style, the region of residence or theater company. Much more relevant in this context to show the uniform estimated principle. Here appropriate to be guided on, so-called, "energy of life" or trait of character. People with similar temperament and the identical relation to basic life situations are capable to overcome any "pleasures and adversities" that is not obligatory in other cases at all.
Uniform social segment. People from different population groups should adapt to each other that often leads to irreconcilable contradictions. It only at first can seem that love and desire constantly unseparable to be capable to overcome any obstacles. However practice of life shows that after the period called in the national epos "honeymoon" there comes time of creative interaction. And here those friction which straight conduct to a gap also begin to be shown.
External data. For many men the woman begins not with deep inner world, and even not with eyes lakes, namely with characteristic elements of a figure and the person. And the speech not about "golden ratio", and about those optical perceptions which force to be turned the head, promptly to fight heart, to give away legs, to test clear symptoms in the lower part of a stomach. Perhaps "the love at first sight" also needs to be considered a certain anachronism from an era romantically of the adjusted ancestors. However both more cynical and pragmatic modern generation of young people is capable to experience the corresponding physiological changes in the organism.
Libido. Whatever one may do, and process of interaction of gender antipodes keeps on natural, natural inclinations of different floors. And therefore the sexuality of the woman will be always considered as her most important weapon for attraction of male attention. Of course, it is very thoughtless to rely on this quality as the only argument in this context. However and it does not make sense to reject it even when potential marriage is planned to be concluded for purely economic, political or legal reasons.
Age. Never it is impossible to trust those people who claim that the essential age difference with the darling can bring a certain updating of physical and sincere health. Always the mature man with the young wife will not only look unnaturally, but also will receive prompt damage to the general state. There is no sense to deny various vital potential at people from different age layers. Even the difference in a half of generation (fifteen years) has to be considered as critical, not to mention more considerable age parameters.
In view of the given "rule of five" it is never impossible to make the wrong choice of "the woman of a dream". And the priority can vary, except the first two points from the general list.