Each girl comes up against a situation of the choice of the man. It is difficult to someone to be defined between two boyfriends, and others have nobody at all nearby. How to behave also what to do otherwise?
Instruction
1. Decide on for what you need the young man, for the choice criteria are necessary. Perhaps, you look after the lover or the person with whom you want to spend free time. Agree that the candidate for a role of the spouse and the father of future children needs to be chosen more carefully, than just the male admirer. Think what qualities the suitable young man has to have. Many girls begin to create the long list of requirements to the man. If you from their number, stop. You will not find such young man. As criteria mark out five-six most important qualities without which it is impossible to do in any way. Take determination of the main qualities of the man seriously, your future and execution of desire depends on it.
2. When you have an admirer, check him regarding compliance to those five-six certain qualities. If the young man meets criteria, and something in you doubts a right choice, then trust more intuition. If at the moment you have no admirers and to choose there is nobody, it is not necessary to try to discover men everywhere as if you for a year departure on the desert island. Calm down, relax, engaged in commonplaces. But is important BUT: be internally ready to meet that whom you look for. Internal readiness to meet the person with the necessary qualities – guarantee of your success. At the same time you do not stay at home, walk, meet girlfriends, you are published. There were cases when men accidentally confused apartments and knocked at the door to the woman expecting them, but after all is a big rarity.
3. Meet different men, learn their characters and features. It is very heavy to choose when the admirer at you only one. Comparing men among themselves, you will be able to understand better who suits you.
4. When we strongly fall in love, it is heavy to make a right choice, especially, if the satellite of all our life is defined. It is important that communication with the man passed through heart, but there is nothing bad in if relationship to all other is thought over and weighed. Try to find out as soon as possible, you suit the man or not. For this purpose attentively you look at his behavior, the developed relations in parental family, achievements and consider the vital purposes. Believe more what the man does, than to his words. Learn how the young man treats the mother, it is the very first and main woman in his life. If with mother at the man the conflicts and difficulties, it is an occasion to think. His life separately from parents can demonstrate independence of the young man. The ability to care and take responsibility is shown through existence of a pet.
5. If your choice stopped on a certain man, it does not mean that all other standing admirers need to let go whistle. It does not concern individuals who do not approach at all. Nobody knows how the relations with the man chosen by you will develop, but the competition does by time surprising things. The main thing, do not go too far in boyfriends. Your admirers should not be obvious. Let it will be a secret for the young man and, only sometimes, an incentive to feats.