In the child's life the most important parts are assigned to parents. Therefore it is important to spend time with the kid to not only mother, but also the father. The father strongly influences education and personal development of children.
Father and son
Boys are in the father in great need – his support, understanding, council and education. The male authority on family is important for the correct development of the young man, he follows an example of the father. It is important to prove to be the good person further to be proud of the son. The man carries out different roles, meanwhile brings up the boy, but it is generally possible to allocate four types.
The father parent constantly cares for the successor, helps the spouse in all that concerns the child. Do not evade from this work. Otherwise you lose joy to see a smile of the wife and happy kid. You spend more time near them that he felt your presence and perceived as the loved one.
The father friend involves the son in active games. At the same time the kid learns to coordinate the movements, to correlate the forces and opportunities, to be guided by areas and in space. Allocate time for games and communication with the son that between you friendly relations were established. The father as a standard for imitation. After 3 years the son begins to compare himself with the father. For this reason the role of the father in education of the boy is extremely important. Carefully you monitor the behavior, the relations with the wife and to people around. Do not show to the boy the bad habits that he did not adopt them from you. Father mentor. By 6 years the authority of the father in the opinion of the kid is very high, he catches each your word and perceives you as teachers. Help it to learn everything that it is useful in life. Do not compare the child to other children, so you can lower his self-assessment and engender diffidence. You praise for its progress that he felt taste of a victory over difficulties.
Father and daughter
The role of the father in the course of education of the daughter originally consists in rendering the feasible help to the wife and that he is it is aware of all family problems. Before your girl goes to the first class, day after day is formed and yours gets stronger with her communication. It is very important to daughter to know and feel that she for the father "the favourite princess". Elementary school. At this stage the most desired for the daughter is the father's praise. She seeks not to disappoint it. The father, in return, has to become for the daughter a standard of the man and always to be ready to help her with any question. She subconsciously compares all familiar boys to the father. Teenage period. At this stage the daughter begins to be interested in more detail in father's affairs and seeks to be engaged with it in something together. Try to come into contact with it, and further it will be much simpler to you to get on with it. Being engaged with you in affairs, the daughter feels necessary, at her the self-assessment gets stronger. And it will help it to become the successful woman in the future. Having become adult, the daughter will subconsciously transfer that model of the relations which you had to the family.