How to distinguish the house tyrant

How to distinguish the house tyrant

The house tyrant is an indisputable authority on family. He aspires to that the last word always remained behind it. In the reasonings it is often categorical and does not suffer opposition. It is difficult to distinguish in the shy and timid young man of future family dictator. However there is a number of signs by which it is possible to determine the authoritative man. Who is he, the despot terrorizing the relatives.

Instruction

1. The house tyrant has always very conservative views on family. He considers that the domestic tyranny is the best, the checked for years, family model.

2. The house tyrant will try to make everything to isolate the spouse from communication with people around. Any hen parties and a sit-round gathering in a circle of close girlfriends. The tyrant considers that communication with women, especially unmarried, can affect behavior of its half extremely negatively.

3. If the spouse of the house despot has a hobby, he will also oppose categorically it. Any gyms and clubs on interests. To it all the time will seem that his wife can get outdoors under bad influence or, God forbid create the novel on the party. As a rule, such suspicions have under themselves no reasons, but the tyrant it does not worry at all.

4. The tyrant is always extremely categorical in the judgments and statements. He is always inclined to insist on the and categorically does not accept others opinion: "On light there are two points of view – my and wrong".

5. In the childhood of future despot often indulged. He was the only child loved often in family. The loving parents often followed his tastes, indulging all its whims and whims.

6. House tyranny can also devolve, from the father to the son. Perhaps, since the childhood, the boy saw similar model of family where the man was final authority of which all family members have to obey and be rather afraid.

7. The main goal of the house tyrant is to ego-trip at the expense of the members of household and to show them that without his participation here nobody is capable to make anything independently. In its lexicon a set of pejorative statements of type: "The woman – the friend of the person" or "Without man the woman is an abbreviated piece of nothing".

8. The house tyrant does not tolerate superiority of the woman even in those affairs which and he understands nothing. What to tell about typically "men's" types of activity, like driving of the car. For example, widespread judgment: "The woman driving is a monkey with a grenade" or "The woman has to have only one car – washing".

9. The despot tries to establish total control in family. He can watch all spheres of life of family. The tyrant constantly watches expenses and can even check checks from shops once again to point out to the spouse excessive wastefulness and inability to handle money.

10. Usually at tyrants very badly with sense of humour. These people are simply incapable of self-irony. Such man is capable to show specially neglect to the wife, to completely ignore her feelings. For it it is possible to begin to deride openly her in the presence of strangers.

11. The tyrant imposes the will. He considers that it is better than others knows how it is necessary to think in any given situation, and all this becomes for the good of family.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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